She Asked A Guy If They Could Reschedule Their Third Date And Then He Ghosted Her
A 21-year-old girl began chatting with a 22-year-old guy through a dating app, and it was going so great that they ended up meeting in real life and going on 2 dates together.
She thought both of their dates were nice, and she also thought that they were getting along better than expected.
“Both of them went really well – we totally clicked, and both agreed it was the best dates either of us had ever been on,” she explained.
“We texted a couple of times a day every day for the past week and a half or so, and had a third date planned for yesterday.”
“Three days before our planned third date, I texted to let him know that I wouldn’t be able to make the time we had planned because I was needed to help out at home that night.”
Although she had to cancel their plans, she did wonder if they could go on their third date another night.
It’s also worth pointing out here that on their first date, he was the one who had to reschedule since he forgot that he had already made plans to do something.
So, he was perfectly fine having to reschedule on her, but when she did the same thing, he completely ghosted her.
Days after she had asked about rescheduling, she still had not gotten a reply from him, so she decided to send a follow-up message wondering if he was alright.
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Prior to her rescheduling their third date, this guy sent her messages multiples times every day and would instantly respond to her messages.
Although she did send the follow-up message, she was met with silence over that too on his end.
“I just checked on some of the other socials we’d shared and he’s removed me from all of them, and unmatched on the dating site we originally met on,” she said.
“I’m extremely confused, because right until I asked to reschedule he was nothing but sweet, giving me pet names, flowers, and compliments constantly.”
She’s not sure if he got mad at her for rescuedling the date, but it was a reservation for dinner, so it’s not like their date was something difficult to cancel.
She did think that this guy was into her, and she was starting to like him too, so to be ghosted over something like asking to switch their date to another day is certainly puzzling.
She’s curious as to whether or not there are other things at play here. Perhaps he did meet another woman he was more into, though he promised he only wanted to date her.
“I’m actually kind of worried about him, and though I’ve kind of given up the idea that he’s still interested, I’d at least like to know why,” she continued.
Do you think she should figure out another way to reach him and ask what happened to warrant him ghosting her?
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