Her Boyfriend Came Home From A Bar One Night With Lipstick On His Shirt So She Dumped Him, But Then One Of Her Friends Showed Her A TikTok Video That Has Her Questioning Everything
A 30-year-old woman was dating her 31-year-old boyfriend until something went down a month ago that made her dump him on the spot.
Back then, her boyfriend met up with some of his friends and coworkers one night at a local bar that has music and also a dance floor.
Her boyfriend routinely meets up with his friends for a night out, though this evening turned out far different than the ones that had come before.
“But this time, when he came home, he had a lipstick mark on his shirt,” she explained. “I asked him where the lipstick mark came from, but he said he had no idea.”
“I thought he may have been cheating on me with someone from work or someone at the bar (he was wearing his dress shirt from work that day). I’ve been cheated on in the past, which in hindsight might have made me think irrationally.”
Several days after that evening, though, they got into multiple arguments about the lipstick mark.
She kept on asking her boyfriend questions about what had happened that evening, and he insisted not a thing had gone down.
She then took it upon herself to dig through his computer and phone, looking for any indication that he was not being faithful, but she got nothing.
Her boyfriend caught her in the middle of doing this, and that caused another fight between them.
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She accused her boyfriend of lying to her face, dumped him, and moved all of her things out of their place. Her boyfriend maintained his innocence, but she didn’t believe him one bit.
Well, yesterday night, she grabbed dinner with one of her friends, and she filled her in about breaking up with her boyfriend.
As soon as she informed her friend that the lipstick mark was what essentially broke them up, her friend looked pretty worried.
“…She gave me a concerned look and showed me a TikTok video of a girl at a club kissing random guys on the back without them knowing and leaving lipstick marks,” she said.
“Is this some sort of TikTok trend? As far as I can tell, the person who posted the TikTok is in Australia, but I live in Los Angeles.”
“The lipstick on my BF’s shirt was on the upper arm/shoulder area, so I suppose it’s possible someone could have come up behind him, kissed his shirt, and walked away without him noticing. I just never considered that to be a possibility.”
After dinner was over, she went home and couldn’t sleep one bit. She feels so incredibly guilty that she potentially made an enormous error by assuming her boyfriend wasn’t being faithful over that lipstick mark.
She’s thinking about reaching out to him over the phone or through an email, but she’s having a hard time finding the right words to say to him.
“Before the lipstick ordeal, our relationship was the best one I’ve ever experienced; it was healthy and supportive,” she continued.
“I realize in hindsight I may have treated him unfairly by not giving him the benefit of the doubt, and I said some nasty things to him when we broke up.”
“And there’s also a small part of me that wonders what if he did actually cheat on me after all?”
“If I bring up this TikTok, wouldn’t an actual cheater jump at the opportunity to use it to continue to deny cheating?”
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