“I told him her feelings were not mine or our kids’ problem,” she said.
If you could not have guessed it, though, that was not the response her ex was expecting. So, he proceeded to call her every name in the book before claiming that Ani’s feelings do matter to the kids since Ani is their parent and their family, and everyone should have more empathy and compassion.
Anyway, now, with Christmas quickly approaching, she has been torn over what to do– adhere to what her kids want and what the custody agreement states, or give in to make Ani feel better during the holidays.
On top of that, she has also been left wondering whether telling her ex-husband that his wife’s feelings are not her or her children’s problem makes her a total jerk or not.
What do you think about Ani trying to get more custody time and calling herself “mom” over the years? Does it seem like Ani had the kids’ best interests at heart or not? Should the children be forced to spend Christmas with their stepmom just to make Ani feel better, even if they do not want to? If you were in her shoes, what would you decide to do?
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