In turn, she decided to point that fact out to Aiden in hopes of opening his eyes a bit. Shockingly, though, her boyfriend claimed that those instances were different, that he only “went for her.”
“So that I have more fun with him there with me, and we can build shared memories,” she added.
She really did not see how that was any different from what Daniel and Lila were trying to do, though. After all, Daniel could afford to take Lila along with him, and he would have more fun with Lila there. Plus, the couple would undoubtedly make some wonderful memories together.
Then, she ended up saying that if that makes Lila a gold digger, then Aiden must be a gold digger, too, by his own standards.
Now, that comparison seriously upset Aiden. In fact, he actually became very angry at her, claimed to be extremely disappointed, and said it was hurtful to know she viewed him like that.
Plus, her boyfriend seems to think that she actually accused him of being a gold digger rather than just trying to point out an error in his reasoning.
Anyway, this whole argument has since started to make her feel pretty guilty. She never meant to make Aiden feel bad for going with her family on all of those trips.
“And I loved having him there,” she vented.
So, she has now been left wondering if she was wrong for trying to draw a parallel between her boyfriend and Lila and if she should apologize to her boyfriend.
Why do you think her boyfriend has it out for Lila? Is she correct that what Daniel and Lila are doing is no different than what she has done with Aiden for numerous vacations? Was she wrong for making that comparison, or did her boyfriend need to realize that he was being hypocritical? Would you apologize if you were in this situation?
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