Her Friend Set Her Up With A Guy Who Ended Up Being Abusive, And Now She Is Not Sure If She Should Tell Her Friend Because Her Ex Will Likely Get Ostracized And Alienated From His Friend Group

She claims that she was never injured, and her boyfriend did not intend to physically harm her. But, the experiences were very jarring.

Thankfully, though, she did end up breaking it off with the guy– ultimately blaming her job and just telling him that she was too stressed out to be in a relationship.

Her good friends also know that she was heartbroken by the experience, and she has since been working on recovering in therapy.

“My therapist is making me read books about trauma and controlling men,” she added.

Still, though, she kind of feels obligated to open up about what really happened with her ex to the friend who set them up in the first place.

After all, she claims that it became really clear her friend had no clue about his personal life or “real nature” over the course of their relationship.

In fact, her friend only ever met her ex because they have a mutual hobby. He was also an outgoing guy who was really great with her friend’s young daughter.

So anyway, after she heard her ex say a few questionable things– and she reached out to her friend for insight– she realized her friend had no clue what she was talking about.

For instance, after they had been dating for three weeks, her ex reportedly started bragging about having slept with most of his female friends– including another mutual friend, with whom he had an on-and-off relationship for ten years.

She was shocked and ended up calling her friend to talk about that. During the conversation, she also mentioned how she would have appreciated a heads-up about the guy’s past.

Shockingly, though, her friend had no idea he had ever slept with another one of their mutual friends.