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Amy then informed her that if she did save up for the Disney trip, it would take her a long time, and she really did want to go on the trip pretty soon.
She ultimately declined to lend Amy any money, as she didn’t agree with what Amy wanted to spend it on.
“I said I’m not paying for a vacation she doesn’t need and that I feel for the kids but that going away for a few days is something she’ll have to pay for herself, and I reminded her I don’t loan out money and that Julie was an exception,” she said.
Amy instantly became upset and called her a mean name for giving Julie money but refusing to do the same for her.
As for how Amy even knows about the money?
Their whole family was suspicious about where Julie came up with the cash to quickly pay down the medical debt, and Julie and Julie’s husband wound up accidentally spilling the beans about where the money came from.
She isn’t mad about it because she understands that Julie and Julie’s husband were under a lot of stress.
She pointed out to Amy that the money she lent to Julie was for Julie’s sick son, and that money kept Julie from losing her home as well as having to declare bankruptcy.
“She said that she ‘needs help just as much as Julie’ by giving her kids ‘something nice to look forward to,'” she continued.
“My family has been dragged into this, and my parents have been pressuring me to just this once ‘bend’ my rule again as the ‘grandkids are suffering.’ I told them if they’re that desperate for my nieces to go to Disney, why can’t they pay for it?”
“Their counter to that is that Amy asked me, not them and that they’re ‘retired and not in a position to lend money whereas you are.’ Julie says Amy is being..entitled…and just to ignore her.”
