All Of A Sudden, His Fiancée Has Started Acting In A Way That’s Raising Some Serious Red Flags For Him

This 29-year-old guy is currently engaged to a woman who is a year younger than him, and they have been in a relationship for 5 years now.
Last year was a big year for them, as he proposed to her, and they also purchased a home. Everything was smooth sailing, according to him, but since 2023 has started, he thinks it’s all been pretty downhill.
Lately, his fiancée has started acting in a way that’s raising some serious red flags for him, starting with how invested she is in how one of her friends has a boyfriend who buys her whatever she wants.
This friend of his fiancée’s gets very pricey designer bags, and his fiancée keeps talking about how she would like them too.
“The way she’s wording it though and voicing it feels like she’s saying “why don’t you buy me things like that,” he explained.
“I’ve asked her why she brings it up all the time and acts disappointed, and she said because she’d like them.”
“I’ve said, well, you’re not going to get that from me because we have a lot more to pay for and saving up for a wedding next year. She’s mentioned it at least every week since the start of the year, and my response is always the same.”
This is not the only red flag that his fiancée has been throwing up, though. She recently joined a group on social media for brides, and his fiancée is obsessed with how large the diamonds are on everyone else’s engagement rings.
Clearely, his fiancée doesn’t think that her ring is big enough, but he got her a .08 carat halo, which comes out to a total carat weight of 1.

meghann – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He spent a lot of money on this ring for her, and he has brought up to his fiancée that was what he could afford to get her.
Then, for Valentine’s Day, he cooked an elaborate meal of 3 courses for her and even went out to a store to purchase drinks after she said she wanted to drink something else for the night.
As their evening was winding down, his fiancée demanded that he make her a cup of tea, which really irritated him because he had spent the entire day doing things for her.
After he suggested that she make tea instead, she freaked out on him. She also wound up making tea for herself but never offered to make him tea.
“I know it’s trivial, but I feel like I’m genuinely taken for granted and what I’m doing is either not good enough, or she just doesn’t care,” he said.
“Like I go out of my way when she needs me, and she couldn’t even make me a cup of tea on Valentine’s Day when all she gave me was some card made on Paint? Now I’ve realized this, I’m just looking back on this past year and seeing how much I get taken for granted. Even though she says she loves me, she doesn’t really show it apart from wanting a hug and a kiss. Outside of that, she doesn’t actually do anything around the house or even cook.”
“Maybe I’m being dramatic, but we’ve just put a non-refundable deposit on our wedding, which is going to total 16-18K for next year, and I’m just worried that in a year’s time, she’s going to be a much different person. Since, like I said, these are out-the-blue comments and actions.”
Do you think he should rethink his upcoming wedding to her?
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