His Girlfriend Wants To Go Out To Dinner With A Guy She Hooked Up With Years Ago Who Is Still Into Her, But He Isn’t Comfortable With This
This 33-year-old guy has a 31-year-old girlfriend that he has been with for a little under 3 years, and before he came into his girlfriend’s life, she had a thing with a guy she met through her cousin.
Back when his girlfriend was between 17 and 19, she went to see her cousin and wound up hooking up with this guy who was friends with her cousin’s brother.
His girlfriend slept with this guy on multiple occasions, and since then, this guy has clearly not moved on from her.
“From what I know, the guy has been single most of his life and is working in remote locations, so he’s always moving across the country,” he explained.
“The guy still keeps in touch with her, texting her 2-3 times a year, asking what she’s up to, and that he was thinking about her.”
He also found out that right before he started dating his girlfriend, his girlfriend sent some steamy photos to this former flame of hers.
He really isn’t happy that his girlfriend did that, but since it was before he met her, she had every right to do whatever she wanted.
Then, a year prior, this former flame of his girlfriend mentioned he was going to be in town to play hockey and wanted to spend time with her.
His girlfriend did tell him about this, and she stated that she would like to see him and find out about what he was doing in life.
Slava_Vladzimirska – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He didn’t have a problem with his girlfriend seeing this guy because he wanted to get to see him too. So, he went to the ice rink, said hello to this guy, and then left to go run a couple of errands while his girlfriend hung out for an hour.
Now, he says that this guy is extremely good-looking, and his girlfriend has admitted that she finds him attractive.
“What I’m not comfortable with is that the guy is clearly into her,” he said. “After I dropped her off, he said to her that I must be a good guy and that he would’ve never done the same (letting his girlfriend meet with a guy she hooked up with).”
“He also said that she was “top-notch,” and when she left, he kissed her on the forehead (from what she told me, we try to be completely transparent with each other).”
“Around 6 months ago, without asking if we were still with each other, he texted her that he was at a friend’s wedding and would’ve loved for her to be his date. And then last week, he told her he was going to the same tournament again and would love to have dinner and a beer with her and me, but “selfishly” wanted to see her. I don’t really believe in forbidding your SO to do anything, but I’m just not feeling it.”
While he completely trusts his girlfriend, he doesn’t trust this guy and his intentions, and he doesn’t want his girlfriend to spend time with this guy anymore. He thinks his girlfriend likes that this guy is into her, but he doesn’t think this guy is a good person for her to be hanging out with.
He has cheated on a girl he dated before, so he believes he can see some clear signs that this is how this is going to go. Do you agree with him not letting his girlfriend hang out with this guy anymore?
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