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So, back to her upcoming wedding. After much consideration, she thought it would be best not to invite Bella to be her bridesmaid because she’s afraid.
She’s afraid that standing up there on one of the most important days of her life, next to Bella, people will compare them.
“I wanted to be the pretty one standing at the altar on my day,” she said. “I’ve gotten over my jealousy of her for the most part and accepted myself for how I look and who I am, but the thought of everyone looking at her at my wedding broke my heart.”
“She obviously thought she would be my maid of honor, and so before I asked anyone to be in my bridal party, I went to her house to talk to her.”
“I didn’t want her to hear through the grapevine or social media that she wasn’t only not my maid of honor, but not in my bridal party at all. When I went over and told her and explained my reasoning, she started to cry.”
Bella wasn’t angry at all when she broke the news to her.
Instead, Bella was extremely hurt that she felt the need to not have her in the bridal party simply over how she looks.
She got why Bella was hurt because Bella really is her best friend. Since having that chat with Bella, Bella has been distant.
Her mom and dad, as well as Bella’s dad, all have found out that she isn’t including Bella, and they all think she’s a terrible person for this decision.
Her family has insisted that Bella is more hurt than she even admitted to her, but Bella is trying not to ruin her wedding.
“She RSVP’d to the wedding invite, so I know she’ll still be coming no matter what, but I feel bad that I have excluded her just because of her looks now,” she concluded.
