And honestly, she was really annoyed by that. However, she actually just wound up apologizing to her boyfriend and claiming that she would go to the grocery store.
Still, he just went off on her– accusing her of being lazy and claiming that she doesn’t do nearly enough for him while he “does way more” than her.
So, she admitted to feeling like a serious jerk. And she really just wants her boyfriend to stop feeling so upset with her.
“But even after I apologized, he’s still mad,” she vented.
She did try to suggest ways to prevent having the same misunderstanding in the future, too. For instance, she proposed that they write down what days each of them is supposed to go to the store. That way, they can avoid any confusion.
But, her boyfriend wasn’t on board with that idea and claimed that if she wanted to write it down for herself, she was free to do that. However, her boyfriend said that he knows what he needs to get done and doesn’t need her reminders. Yikes.
So now, ever since the fight, she’s been left wondering whether their argument was really because of her “laziness” or if they both lacked some communication skills.
Can you believe her boyfriend doesn’t pay any rent or utilities but still says she doesn’t do enough for him? Does it sound like her boyfriend is taking advantage of her? Was she really being lazy by not wanting to go to the store on her boyfriend’s day? How would you have reacted in this situation?
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