Examples of what delayed gratification might look like in children include the ability to wait for food, refraining from spending allowance money right away, and waiting to indulge in entertainment until after their homework is completed.
Here’s how you can help your child develop more self-control. First of all, kids copy what their parents do. So if you want your child to improve, behave how you would like them to behave.
As a parent, exhibit patience in everyday life and verbally express your decision-making process when choosing between a short-term goal and a long-term one. Clearly describe the consequences of each with your child.
Additionally, you can encourage your child to set their own goals and instruct them on how to prioritize those goals. Having goals will align their focus and direct attention away from aimless acts.
Finally, celebrate any positive steps you see your child making, not just the achievement itself at the end. When you also recognize what they’ve accomplished on their journey, they feel more validated and encouraged to keep it up.
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