Her Boyfriend Has A Female Best Friend, And She Thinks This Girl’s Behavior Is Out Of Line Because It Seems She Might Have A Crush On Her Boyfriend
I’ve heard some interesting stories about people being jealous or having concerns about their partner’s best friend, but I’ve never heard a story quite like this one.
One woman’s boyfriend is very close to his best friend, Lisa. He and Lisa have known each other for over a decade. They went to school together and now work for the same company. Their jobs allow them to work in multiple countries.
Her boyfriend told her that Lisa did mention having a crush on him when they were in school, but nothing came of it, and they were never romantically involved.
Lisa has a husband and got married at a very young age, but her relationship with her husband is quite strange.
“When my boyfriend got an opportunity to move to a new country for work, Lisa requested a transfer to the same country and relocated with him, leaving her husband behind,” she explained.
When her boyfriend decided to move back to their home country after a couple of years, Lisa followed right behind him and requested a transfer back.
Perhaps if this had only happened once, it wouldn’t seem so odd. But it certainly was not the first time Lisa dropped everything to be in the same place as her boyfriend.
A few months later, Lisa became pregnant. Unfortunately, her husband had to move to a different country for work for a while. Lisa’s job is flexible, and she can work remotely from anywhere, but she chose not to follow her husband.
However, her boyfriend had to move to the same country as Lisa’s husband for work a few years later. When Lisa heard that news, she finally decided to move there.
Igor Kardasov – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Not long after that, Lisa’s husband was assigned to work on a project in a different location, but Lisa and her baby stayed where she and her boyfriend were.
“I find it a bit strange that she only moved cities [or] countries when my boyfriend did, not when her husband did,” she explained.
“I understand that people have different depths of friendship. I completely trust my boyfriend, and I know that he never had any romantic feelings towards her.”
Lisa’s moving habits aren’t the only strange behaviors she’s shown. Her boyfriend is the first person Lisa goes to in case of emergency, and this was still the case while she lived with her husband.
Now, Lisa, her husband, and her children live under the same roof in a different country, but she still drops by unannounced to surprise her boyfriend occasionally.
“I’m not happy with her acting entitled and showing up at our apartment to stay for a week,” she said. “She has pulled a few more stunts like these in the past.”
Whenever she mentioned that she finds Lisa’s behavior odd to her boyfriend, he usually gets defensive and has to reassure her that nothing has happened between them.
Is it wrong for her to call Lisa out on her strange behavior?
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