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“I’ve always been upfront about my hesitation to contribute large amounts to a home I don’t own because we aren’t married yet, and I’m not on the deed,” she said.
“I also don’t want to be like his ex, who contributed to similar expenses, and obviously, that didn’t work out.”
After she shared these concerns with her boyfriend, he essentially belittled her concerns. He told her that her insecurity about his ex is silly because nothing is guaranteed in life anyhow, hinting that even if they get married, they could still get divorced.
She feels like, after this conversation, her boyfriend is resenting her for not contributing more and even mentioned that her monthly mortgage payments are not helpful enough.
“I’ve told him I have no issues with contributing more once I’m on the deed,” she concluded.
Do you think that she is right in holding out until her name is on the deed, or do you think that she should already be contributing her own money towards these renovations?
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