Her Sister Keeps Trying To Get With Her Boyfriend, And She’s Debating If She Should Confront Her
For the past six years, a 20-year-old woman and her boyfriend, also 20, have had a wonderful relationship. However, her 18-year-old sister has recently tried to cause trouble by coming onto her boyfriend.
At first, she, her boyfriend, and her sister all got along well. But six months ago, her sister went through a breakup, and that was when problems started to arise.
It started with an increase in her sister texting her boyfriend. After that, her sister began calling her boyfriend frequently to vent about things going on in her life.
But two months ago, things escalated even further.
“My sister calls him almost every day (he doesn’t answer most of the time because he’s uncomfortable). She asks him for rides every day to different places. Which is fine, but she talks about her [personal] life, talks about how she ‘craves male attention,’ and talks about all the different guys that want her,” she explained.
Somehow, it gets even worse. Whenever her boyfriend does agree to give her sister a ride, her sister tells him that she has no money and insinuates that she can hook up with him. Every time, he rejects her sister’s advances.
She and her boyfriend live together, and her sister constantly comes over to see her boyfriend. Her sister makes her boyfriend so uncomfortable that he hides in the garage before her sister comes over.
But her sister finds him and talks to him about all the guys who are hitting on her. Her sister has continued to be persistent, no matter what time of day.
“My sister has been recently texting him at late hours asking just to drive around and talk (obviously he says no), but she pressures him every time and keeps asking,” she said.
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Then, her sister suggested the three of them go camping together and share a tent. She wasn’t thrilled about this idea.
“This made me uncomfortable with all the stuff she’s been doing lately, so I said our tent couldn’t fit a third person, and she replied that she didn’t have a tent (she does),” she shared.
Apparently, her sister had already brought up the idea of sleeping in a tent together with her boyfriend.
He told her sister that the three of them could camp in the same area, but he never agreed that they would all share the same tent.
Despite that, her sister still assumed they would be sleeping in one tent on their camping trip.
After discussing the drama, her boyfriend came to the conclusion that he should stop talking to her sister.
She already has limited contact with her sister and only sees her sister when she visits their mother.
Currently, she hasn’t yet confronted her sister about everything. Her boyfriend supports whatever decision she makes.
Until now, she didn’t think she’d ever be in a position where she’d have to cut off contact with her sister.
Even though her sister’s actions made her and her boyfriend uncomfortable, they had been able to just brush everything off and ignore her.
In the end, she is afraid to talk to her sister about making advances toward her boyfriend because her sister is a very defensive person.
She explained that if it was a random girl doing this, it would be a whole different story, and she wouldn’t hesitate to cut the girl out of her life.
Do you think she should confront her sister?
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