She Got Kicked Out Of Her Friend’s Bridal Party And Asked To Leave The Bachelorette Party Over A Rumor, So She Asked For Money Back From The Bride
Have you ever been in a bridal party or a groomsman and didn’t get along with someone else in the wedding?
One woman recently got kicked out of her college friend’s bridal party after another bridesmaid spread a petty rumor about her and one of the groomsmen.
She is close to a good friend from college who is getting married. She was asked to be her friend’s bridesmaid, and she gladly accepted because she wanted to help her celebrate her big day.
The role of bridesmaid certainly was difficult, as she had to spend a lot of money on the events leading up to the wedding, like the bachelorette party, which was a big group trip that included the groom and groomsmen.
Unfortunately, she wasn’t aware that one of the other bridesmaids was a rumor spreader.
She had interesting connections with other members of the wedding party. One of them was a groomsman who she had a summer fling with back in college. That groomsman is currently dating another one of the bridesmaids.
When that bridesmaid found out about their former fling, she started freaking out. Although she and this guy hadn’t spoken in two years, the bridesmaid started panicking when the groomsman asked about her. That’s when she decided to spread a rumor.
The night before their big bachelor and bachelorette group trip, everyone from the wedding party went to a bar. A different groomsman, a married guy she didn’t know, approached her at the bar and chatted with her for a bit. It was totally innocent, and nothing romantic happened between them.
However, the angry bridesmaid decided to tell other girls in the bridal party that she and this married groomsman actually hooked up after meeting each other in the bar.
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“This, of course, did not happen,” she said.
The rumor began spreading as everyone was driving to the destination for the bachelor and bachelorette party.
Unfortunately, once they got there, the bride also caught wind of this nasty rumor.
“With this girl being a friend of the bride much longer than me, the bride took her side and asked me to leave the bachelorette trip the next morning,” she explained.
“In total, I was on the trip for less than 24 hours. The trip was booked for 5 days.”
About a week before the wedding, when the trip was over, she texted the bride to ask her a question about her bridesmaid’s dress. Then, she got a long text from the bride, informing her she was no longer a part of the bridal party and couldn’t attend the wedding because of the spreading rumor.
Because the bride, groom, and their respective families were made uncomfortable by the rumor, she couldn’t go. Additionally, the married groomsman, with whom she had an alleged affair, would have his family at the wedding.
Now, she’s asking her friend to reimburse her for all the money she spent on the trip she got kicked out of and all the other money she spent to be ready for her wedding.
Should she feel guilty for asking for her money back, or is it something she needs to do?
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