She Went On A Date With A Guy Who Already Ordered Food For Himself Before Asking If She Wanted To Play A Drinking Game
When your date is purposely evading conversation, pressuring you to drink alcohol, and just generally behaving like the opposite of a gentleman, you should run far and fast.
TikToker Ansa Edim (@ansa____) is sharing how she went on a first date a few days ago with a guy who ordered food without her and forced her to play a drinking game with him.
So she had been talking to a guy who seemed really cool and like someone she could be friends with, which is an important aspect that she looks for when dating.
However, when she met him on their date, he was not who she thought he was. He was socially awkward, barely acknowledged her arrival, and had already ordered some food for himself.
Then, he insisted that they play a drinking game together. He had already downloaded an app for this very purpose and customized it with their names.
The game required them to take turns answering questions about each other. And if they gave the wrong answer, they would have to take three sips of their drinks.
Ansa tried to hint at the fact that she wasn’t interested in playing a drinking game. She would much rather have a regular conversation. So she asked him how to win the game and when it would end.
When he wasn’t picking up on her hints, she finally asked him outright if they could just chat normally. But he didn’t want the fun to end and continued on with the drinking game.
Ansa attempted to engage in deeper conversation with him outside of the app to get to know him a little better, but he was not having it.
Maksim Shebeko – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only
She also noticed that he kept referring to women as girls, but men were strictly referred to as men. It was a detail that made Ansa uneasy.
After a while, her stomach started acting up because of her anxiety. And toward the end of the date, he mentioned how she probably never wanted to see him again.
“Inability to let someone else drive the conversation and signs that they are so insecure, and they’re hoping that you take pity on them, those are signs of covert narcissism,” concluded Ansa.
What would you have done on this date?
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