Her Friend Went On A Bad Date With An Overly Controlling Guy Who Then Posted A Photo of Her Online Without Her Permission

Emily Chan |

Sep 3, 2023

Kalim - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

If you date, you know there are lots of red flags to watch out for when meeting someone for the first time, such as showing up late, talking only about themselves, or displaying controlling behavior.

When you witness the early signs of a controlling man, just know there’s probably more where that came from before deciding to jump into a commitment with him.

TikToker Erin (@blondebimp) is describing a bad date that her friend went on with an overly controlling guy who posted a photo of her online without her permission.

From the beginning of their date, this guy was acting super weird and already trying to exert control over her life. He told her that when they started dating, she would not be allowed to go out without him or have any friends that weren’t his.

After their date, he dropped her back off at her apartment, and she immediately blocked him so he wouldn’t be able to contact her.

Erin wanted to know what this guy looked like, so her friend gave her his Instagram handle. Erin searched for his name on Instagram, but his account was marked as private.

She requested to follow him, and he accepted her request right away. As she scrolled through his photos, she saw that the most recent picture was of her friend walking inside her apartment. He had taken the photo through his car window after dropping her off.

Naturally, Erin messaged him, asking him to delete the picture of her friend. He responded that he must’ve uploaded the photo by accident.

Erin was sure he was lying because he had posted the picture two days ago, so if it truly was a mistake, there was no way he wouldn’t have noticed by now. Luckily, he didn’t make a big fuss about it and did what Erin asked.

Kalim – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Men who use tactics to control their significant others are not rare. A journal called Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine published a study in 2011 that found nearly seventy percent of women have experienced at least one episode of controlling behavior from their male partners.

Anyone who suspects that their partner might be a control freak should be on high alert. The more you get involved with a controlling partner, the deeper your emotional connection will be with them. And that just makes it even harder to remove yourself from a situation that’s potentially dangerous.

So, stay safe out there, ladies, and run at the first sign of trouble!

https://www.tiktok.com/@blondebimp/video/7269123392840682798?_r=1&_t=8f1mk3GYxPW

If true crime defines your free time, this is for you: join Chip Chick’s True Crime Tribe

She Met Up With The Father of Her Kids, Who Was 15 Years Older Than Her, Before She Suspiciously Vanished, And Later That Night, He Took His Boat Out On The Water In The Dead of Winter

She Wrote A Cherished Novel That Became Famous For Addressing The Role of Women In The 1880s, And It’s Actually Based On Her Life Story

Decorating Your Home With Minimaluxe Combines A Clean, Minimalist Look With Luxurious, High-End Details

He Dumped His Girlfriend Because He Proposed To Her Twice, And Each Time She Said No

Her Worst Date Ended With A Guy Crying In Her Bed After They Hooked Up, So She Made Him A Cup of Tea While He Poured Out His Feelings To Her

His Wife Just Broke Up With Him, Yet She Expects Him To Still Help Pay For The Majority of The Rent On Their $6,000 A Month New York City Apartment

He’s On The Verge of Breaking Up With His Girlfriend Over The Engagement Ring She Expects Him To Buy

Sign up for Chip Chick’s newsletter and get stories like this delivered to your inbox.

By Emily Chan