Her Sister’s Husband Texted Her Saying He Wants To Kiss Her, And She’s Disgusted, As Well As Sad For Her Sister
This 26-year-old woman has an older sister who is 33, and her sister is married to a man that she doesn’t exactly like.
She has really had a hard time getting along with her sister’s husband, and it’s not because he’s not a nice guy.
In fact, her sister’s husband has a heart that’s completely in the right place, but he lacks basic manners.
“He has a good heart and has helped our family a lot, but he has very poor social and emotional intelligence, and this is evident based on the things he says and his behavior in social settings,” she explained.
“He also has little to no concept of boundaries. I’m convinced his mental development was severely stunted during childhood, and based on his history, he’s had few to no successful platonic relationships with women.”
“In 2021, he spent the holiday season with my family and [me]. During this time, I noticed him following me around quite a lot. There was one time he hugged me, and it felt inappropriate because it was a physically and weirdly intimate hug due to where his hands went on my body.”
He would also frequently touch her and pick her up before spinning her around without asking her first. He also bit her on her cheek in front of her sister, which really made her sister uneasy.
She has attempted to justify his actions, suspecting that maybe he views her as the little sister he never had but always wanted to have.
She figured that could be a valid reason why he was so attached to her. Regardless, she couldn’t explain away his behavior, and she still believed deep down that he was acting in a way that was utterly wrong and disgusting.
Artem Zatsepilin – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Thinking back to that distressing holiday season, she can see that her sister’s husband was way too comfortable around her.
He even discussed an argument with her that he had gotten into with her sister, and it ended with her sister saying he should hook up with her.
That made her stomach drop, and it was then that she knew her gut was right. Her sister’s husband didn’t have good intentions regarding her.
She ended up being candid with him and pointing out how he was behaving towards her in a way that was not appropriate.
In the years that followed, everything was alright up until now.
“First, he admitted he’s envious of my boyfriend for some reason. He’s never met my BF but says he “already doesn’t like him because he’s not me,” wtf? And then he texted me how he had gotten really tipsy once and wanted to kiss me,” she said.
“I lost it. I’m mad and disgusted. Maybe as he’s socially and developmentally stunted, he sees me treating him like I would any friend or family member as an invitation of some sort. I’ve treated him like I would any friend or family member; I’m nice, decent, and respectful.”
“I’m sad for my sister because she deserves so much better. He should only be having thoughts and desires like this for his wife, not his wife’s little sister. I thought he learned from the last incident, but apparently not, and I’m uncomfortable and upset.”
She has since written out a text she would like to send to him, though she has not pulled the trigger yet.
She’s anxious that in sending this message, he will feel personally attacked and will stir up some drama in their family.
“He’s a married man and needs to grow up. I’m disgusted with his behavior,” she concluded.
What advice do you have for her? Do you think she should send the text to him or speak to her sister first?
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