She Wants Her Boyfriend To Buy Her More Candy Because His Niece Attended Her Adults-Only Halloween Party And Took $100 Worth Of Treats That Were Reserved For Trick-Or-Treaters
Last Saturday, this woman threw an adults-only wine night for Halloween.
The majority of her friends have children, so they were thrilled to have a night to themselves.
She planned for them to watch a spooky movie and carve or paint pumpkins, and she provided wine and snacks.
Two months ago, she started dating her boyfriend.
Before the party, he told her that he was going to bring his sister along.
So far, she’s only met her boyfriend’s sister twice, for a brief moment each time, but his sister is about the same age as she is, and she seems really sweet.
“She has two children, so I specifically reminded my boyfriend it was adults-only. Of course, she shows up with her daughter, who is 10,” she said.
While she adores children, she planned this party for her friends so that everyone could have a night without children around.
Plus, she doesn’t have children, so her house isn’t suitable for children, anyway.
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Her boyfriend’s niece noticed the candy she had set up ahead of time for the trick-or-treaters on Halloween and was thrilled to dig in.
“I told her she could pick one but told her it was for trick-or-treaters (her mom was standing right there, and then we went back to enjoy time with the adults,” she explained.
During the party, she said to her boyfriend that she was irritated that his sister brought her daughter, but she didn’t want the girl to pick up on this because she believed that the blame should be on her boyfriend’s sister, not the child.
One of her friends said that she hired a babysitter so that she could enjoy some time without her children for the night.
At about midnight, her boyfriend’s sister and her daughter left the party, and she tried to enjoy the rest of the night with her friends.
Later, she started cleaning up around the house, and she was shocked to see that all of the Halloween candy she’d bought was gone.
“Not one piece left (for reference, it was two huge bowls from the Costco bags, so over $100 of Halloween candy). I asked my friends if they noticed anything, and they said the little girl kept walking up to it, but they thought she was just trying to get the scarecrow to scare her. I asked my boyfriend, and he literally said, ‘If you didn’t want her to have it, you shouldn’t have put it out.’ It wasn’t out!” she shared.
Since trick-or-treating was going to start right after she got home from work on Halloween, she had put the candy by the back door so that it was ready for her to pass out to the children in the neighborhood.
When she asked her boyfriend to go to Costo to replenish the candy that his niece took, since she now didn’t have any candy for the trick-or-treaters, her boyfriend refused and blamed her for having the candy out for his niece to help herself. But she felt like it was his sister’s and his fault for not watching his nice to make sure she was listening to her rule of only being allowed one piece of candy.
Their relationship is so new, and up until this point, they haven’t had any big fights or problems.
She’d been feeling really content with her boyfriend, but she thinks he’s being “selfish and rude.”
While she and her boyfriend were arguing, her friends were on her side.
What advice would you give her?
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