She Was Invited Over To A Guy’s House For Dinner And A Movie, But Stayed For Literally Three Seconds Before Fleeing The Premises Because His Place Was Absolutely Filthy, And Now He Won’t Stop Angrily Blowing Up Her Phone

Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com -  illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

Growing up, you might have heard your parents tell you, “You never know what goes on behind closed doors.” But this isn’t just true about family drama in your neighborhood; it’s also even more relevant today in the age of social media.

Of course, we have Instagram and TikTok highlight reels that showcase our “best selves” and the most flattering perspectives of our lives. However, online dating is arguably even worse.

While scrolling on a dating app, you might only get to see a handful of photos of a prospective partner before you’re expected to go out with them. And sometimes, what you find on the other side of the screen is downright shocking.

This woman in her late forties recently had a similar experience with a guy she met online.

For context, they actually met online several months ago and have been talking ever since. However, she only finally met the guy in person last weekend.

“We went to a movie,” she recalled.

Then, just last night, the guy invited her over to his house to watch another movie and eat some dinner.

She agreed to go, too, but she had no idea the kind of household she would be stepping into.

From the moment she walked inside the guy’s place, she realized that she couldn’t stay there for long at all.

Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

“The place was disgustingly filthy,” she revealed.

Apparently, there was garbage everywhere and dishes with half-eaten meals littered on literally every surface– from countertops and furniture to even the floor!

“I felt like I was in the episode of Friends where Ross dates the ‘dirty girl.’ Only this place was way worse,” she detailed.

That’s why she literally fled the scene on the spot. In fact, she stayed for all three seconds in this guy’s home before mumbling some excuse and promptly leaving the premises.

Ever since she did that, the guy has been furious, too. He actually told his friends about what happened, so now both he and his friends have been blowing up her phone– accusing her of being a jerk for walking out like that.

“And he must have given my number to his friends because I don’t know them,” she vented.

So now, with the guys calling her out, she can’t help but wonder if walking out of the guy’s house immediately after getting there was really so unreasonable or not.

Have you ever gone over to a potential partner’s house and been shocked by the state of their place? Do you think she should’ve stayed even if the guy’s house was filthy? Or did she have a right to leave if it made her uncomfortable? What would you have done in this situation? 

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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