She’s Refusing To Let Her Brother Live In One Of Her Rental Properties Because He Tortured Her Through Childhood And She Doesn’t Trust That He’ll Pay Rent On Time
This 25-year-old woman is the youngest of her parents’ four children, and she is their only daughter.
She loves her two oldest brothers, who are 37 and 35.
However, her third brother, Adam, 33, has despised her for her entire life.
“He has always hated how much attention I get from my dad, even though he gets babied by our mom. He would torture me when I was little by locking me in the closet or sitting on me until I couldn’t breathe. I was sort of a brain in school, and Adam bullied me constantly for it,” she said.
At 16, she graduated from high school, and she has earned three college degrees.
Currently, she works as a financial advisor, and she is financially successful and accomplished.
Her two oldest brothers are both business owners, and they both earn a decent living.
Meanwhile, Adam didn’t attend college, even after their parents told him they would pay his tuition.
Adam has been working as a bartender for a while, and he still lives with their parents because he doesn’t save any of his money, and he’s never paid his own bills.
Anatoliy Karlyuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Last week, Adam was fired for a fifth time from the bar he worked at because he was intoxicated while working.
Recently, her parents pleaded with her to come to a family dinner, but she was hesitant to go because anytime she’s around Adam, he insults and mocks her mercilessly.
But because her father was so insistent on her being there, she decided to agree to show up.
During the family dinner, her mother asked if Adam would be able to live in one of the rental properties that she owns.
“I only have two, and one a family lives in, and the other, a woman and her daughter are about to move into, so both are occupied. I explained this to my mother, and Adam suggested I just break one of their leases and let him move in. I told him no. He asked why, and I said it was wrong, and, also, he isn’t responsible, so I don’t trust him to pay rent on time. He laughed and asked why he would need to pay rent,” she explained.
In response, she told her brother to move on, considering the fact that he thought she would allow him to stay in one of her rental properties for free when that was completely out of the question.
“I finally told him it wasn’t my responsibility to care for him, and he needs to figure it out. I told him he had never been kind to me, so he shouldn’t feel entitled to anything. My mom started yelling at me, saying I was disrespectful and that I needed to help when the family asked. I told her she created this monster so she can deal with it,” she shared.
Not long after that, she left her parents’ house, and ever since, her mother and Adam have been repeatedly reaching out to her and calling her terrible names.
Both her father and one of her older brothers have taken her side in the situation.
Unfortunately, Adam has been ranting to people, claiming that the only reason their father is on her side is because she’s his favorite child, and he’s still been name-calling her.
Understandably, the chaos has been negatively affecting her, and all she wants is to feel like her life is calm and peaceful again.
Then, Adam sent her a text message telling her that she had no idea what the experience for him was like as the “black sheep” of the family, and he advised her that she lend a hand when he’s going through a difficult time because, according to him, helping out one another is what family is supposed to do.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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