The “Orange Peel Theory” Is The Latest Romance Test Sweeping Social Media, With Women Using A Simple Task To Gauge How Much Their Partners Really Care About Them
Need another way to test your relationship? TikTok has got your back with the viral “orange peel theory.”
The idea involves women urging their male partners to peel oranges for them as a way of gauging their levels of love and appreciation.
Or, more generally, it tests their partners’ tendency to help them with simple tasks that they can easily do themselves.
If your boyfriend is willing to perform a small act of service for you without complaint, such as peeling an orange, it is a demonstration of how much he cares.
However, if he says no or instructs you to do it yourself, it may be a sign that your relationship isn’t as strong as you thought, and you should consider breaking up, according to TikTok.
Many people on TikTok have shared some examples of things their boyfriends have done for them that illustrate the orange peel theory.
One TikToker and baker named Jenna (@jennaskates) posted a heartwarming video of her chef boyfriend surprising her with egg whites that he had taken the time to separate for her. The gesture moved her to tears.
In another instance, a TikToker named Nicole (@nicole.222320) explained how she often woke up with stomachaches at three in the morning.
Her boyfriend would heat up a hot water bottle for her and massage her stomach until she fell asleep every time. These examples may not involve actual oranges, but the idea still stands.
Valeri Vatel – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Relationship experts have commented on the trend, and while they say consistent acts of affection are hallmarks of a good relationship, it’s not the only criteria for judging the depth of someone’s love.
The orange peel theory is likely so popular because most people are searching for signals from their partners to reassure themselves of their devotion.
When your partner does a favor for you without you asking, it shows that they have extensive knowledge of your likes and dislikes, proving that they care for you and will go out of their way to make you happy.
These seemingly small but kind gestures will allow you to feel more comfortable and secure in your relationship, helping to deepen your emotional connection.
However, everyone has different ways of showing their love, and looking at just one detail, whether or not your boyfriend peels an orange for you, is not a good indicator of your relationship as a whole.
It’s important to note that comparing your love life to a seconds-long moment from a TikTok clip is unrealistic. Step back and observe the bigger picture to get a better sense of the quality of your relationship.
Additionally, the orange peel theory requires your significant other to read your mind in order to fulfill your needs instead of engaging in healthy communication, which is a big part of any relationship. Being clear and direct about your desires is always best.
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