She Went Through Her Husband’s Phone And Caught Him Talking To Multiple Other Women While They Have Two Kids Together And A Third On The Way
This 25-year-old woman and her husband, who is 45, have been together for four years, and she really thought that he would be her forever partner.
They already have two kids together, and she is currently pregnant with their third. But, there have been consistent red flags throughout their relationship.
It all began during their first year together when she noticed that her husband was really protective over his cell phone. Then, her cousin’s husband actually caught him flirting with a cashier while she was carrying their first baby.
“This caused a lot of trust issues, and, as the years went by, I was no longer allowed to touch his phone in any way,” she said.
Still, she started going through her husband’s phone again every night just a few days ago, and she’s since uncovered a lot of cheating.
She specifically caught him talking to multiple women on Facebook. Now, her husband always made sure to delete the conversations, so what she found at first was not inappropriate.
However, she then decided to check her husband’s Google chats– which was an app he used to have– and his phone had saved his login information. So, she was able to get in, and she found out that her husband had been telling the women that he loved them, sending them steamy photos, and talking about how much he wanted to sleep with them.
“And he attempted to meet with a lot of these women, but I never saw where any of them actually agreed to meet up, so I’m not sure if he’s fully done the deed or not,” she explained.
Given that she is pregnant right now– 25 weeks along, to be exact– her hormones have been going “crazy,” and coupled with the infidelity, she’s finding it really hard not to fight with her husband.
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While she’s crushed over his cheating, though, her husband is just upset that she keeps bringing it up!
“But how do you just get over it when it’s only been three days since I’ve found everything, and I’m still finding more? It’s all in the uninstalled apps,” she asked.
She also wants to leave her husband after uncovering all of his shady behavior, but her oldest child– who is just 6 years old– already calls him “dad.” Plus, she feels like all of her kids will have a hard time adjusting to a divorce.
That’s why she feels like her family is destroyed, and she has no idea what to do about it.
“He keeps telling me he didn’t cheat because he never met any of them, but I still feel like what he was doing was cheating,” she vented.
On top of that, with her husband now angry at her, she’s been left wondering if going through his phone and catching him talking to other women really made her the jerk in this situation.
How would you feel if you caught your spouse talking to multiple other people and sending photos? Does that count as cheating? Do you think she’s in the wrong for going through her husband’s phone or not?
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