Katharina Buczek
Tom’s wife still hasn’t stopped blaming her for the affair, though. In fact, she receives texts every day from the woman, who keeps calling her a homewrecker.
“I sometimes feel I should have just kept my mouth shut. What was I even trying to achieve? I thought I was doing the right thing,” she said.
Ever since Tom’s affair was exposed, she also keeps finding herself stalking his social media accounts. She realized that he’d already posted photos with other women he’d been on dates with, and it was making her feel sad.
To be clear, she definitely doesn’t want to take Tom back. Nonetheless, she still had a great time with him before she learned the truth, and she’s mourning their memories together.
“Why couldn’t he have just left his wife before meeting me?” she vented.
“All I achieved was sadness and harassment, and I am being blamed for being a homewrecker. I feel I should have just left without a word.”
So now, she can’t help but wonder if forcing Tom to come clean about their affair was really the right thing to do.
Can you understand why she thought she was doing the right thing? Does she deserve to be on the receiving end of the harassment, or should Tom’s wife be angry at him? How do you suggest she handles this?
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