Her Boyfriend’s Not Even Rich, But Wants Her To Sign A Prenup Before He Proposes
This 23-year-old girl has a 28-year-old boyfriend who’s not even rich, but he wants her to sign a prenup before he proposes to her.
Now, she grew up in a family full of love. They didn’t have any luxuries when she was little, but her dad worked hard to provide for them and cared about her and her siblings being happy.
Her mom was her dad’s biggest cheerleader, and when her mom married her dad, he had absolutely nothing.
Now, her dad is actually one of the most successful businessmen in her city, and she looks at her parents and wants the kind of marriage that they have.
Her dad told her growing up to work hard and trust that process while not lusting after being rich.
“He is the best example to show that money does not buy happiness, and hard work always pays off,” she explained.
She has taken her dad’s advice and worked hard to become a pilot. Her boyfriend is actually a pilot as well, and they both went through training together and are at the same points in their careers.
“…My boyfriend believes that one day he will be a big businessman, but he doesn’t really do anything to make that possible,” she said.
“Today, in his blind belief that one day he’ll be rich, he told me that he doesn’t want to lose all his money (which doesn’t exist) if we divorce in the future, so he wants a prenup.”
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She informed her boyfriend she wanted him to propose to her first before even having this conversation, but he refused and said she needs to say yes to a prenup before he does this.
She replied that it’s absurd for him to believe that she’s somehow after money he doesn’t even have, especially since her family is a lot wealthier than him.
Her boyfriend simply said he will have far more money than her in the future, so she told him when that happens, they can revisit the prenup before exiting their conversation.
She’s left wondering if she was being too arrogant and if she should sign a prenup after all.
“I honestly don’t care for it, but the thought that I’m after his money is what hurt me,” she concluded.
What do you think; should she say yes to the prenup her boyfriend desperately wants?
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