Her Broke Sister Freaked Out When She Refused To Help Pay For Her Wedding, Then Sent A Selfie Sobbing On Her Wedding Day
This 24-year-old girl has 13 siblings, and she’s the baby of her family. All of her brothers and sisters are married with children of their own, except for her and her 30-year-old sister, Ursula.
There’s a tradition in her family where all of the brothers and sisters come up with $3,000 any time someone gets married, and the money also goes towards the honeymoon too.
They all have excellent jobs and are well-off financially, so this tradition hasn’t been hard for them all to keep up with.
When her mom passed away, she promised that she would stop pitching in money for their family’s wedding tradition, as it’s only her and Ursula left to get married.
Now, she doesn’t speak to Ursula, and in fact, she only talks to two of her siblings. A couple of days ago, she came across what appeared to be a wedding invitation in her pile of mail.
She opened the letter, and she was shocked to see that Ursula had asked her for $3,000 to help pay for her upcoming wedding.
She didn’t even know that Ursula got engaged in February, as, again, she does not talk to her at all. Her two siblings she does speak to filled her in and mentioned Ursula lost her job in the pandemic and had to file for bankruptcy.
Ursula is also engaged to a man who only makes $800 every month, and Ursula and her beau cannot afford to have a wedding.
She decided to text Ursula and say that while she’s sorry she’s in a bad position money-wise, she won’t be giving her anything for her upcoming wedding.
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Ursula replied by flipping out on her and insisting she’s going to destroy her wedding simply because she’s envious of her (she was engaged but broke things off with that man).
She pointed out to Ursula that her refusal to give her money for her wedding had nothing to do with her prior engagement.
She informed Ursual that she had not talked to her in years, and that was the reason why she didn’t want to contribute to her special day.
“She then responded with how much everything cost. I told her it’s not my fault that a bum planned a luxurious wedding and honeymoon, knowing she didn’t have the money,” she said.
She later on learned that the rest of her siblings are coming up with the money, but then she saw on social media that Ursula posted a fundraiser for her wedding.
One of her friends saw the posts from Ursula and texted them to her, wanting to know if Ursula was her sister.
She was so embarrassed that she denied knowing Ursula. But things only got worse from there, as Ursula created another post on social media calling her out for helping to fund the weddings of all of their siblings yet denying her money.
Ursula also said she was jealous of her upcoming wedding, since she’s single with two children to take care of.
“I went and made a post with pictures and video evidence of her making fun of all the siblings and her friends,” she added.
“After I made the post, I turned my phone off. About 3 hours later, I turned my phone on to find out all of the siblings [had pulled] out their funding for Ursula’s wedding.”
“About a day later, she made a post saying the wedding was off because she couldn’t afford the dream wedding and honeymoon she wanted because of me. She went to the courthouse today to get married and sent me a picture of her crying.”
Tons of people have called her and texted her to say she’s an awful human being for doing what she did to Ursula.
She’s beginning to feel terrible, as if she had refrained from making that post in the first place, Ursula would have had the money for a nice wedding.
Do you think what she did was unfair?
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