Chip Chick
One more thing: he cannot get the gym girl out of his mind. He ran into her not too long ago, and he finally confessed to her about getting married.
She was shocked, and he then let her know that he can’t quit thinking about her. She admitted she feels the same way and that her feelings for him go further than simply being attracted to him in a physical sense.
He sensed she was somehow disappointed as if she wanted them to try to be together and have that shot.
“She said that whatever was going on between the two of us “felt right,” he added. “She is dating a new guy but said it doesn’t feel as “right.”
“We kissed again, said goodbye, and have not spoken since. What should I do? I honestly don’t want to hurt anybody. Should I suck it up, forget about this girl, work on my marriage, and hope it improves with time and work? Or should I break it up as soon as possible, suffer the social and financial blow, and follow my feelings?”
“I went ahead with the wedding anyway because I worry that after enough time, I’ll feel the same with the new girl (or with any girl, for that matter). As I said, my wife hasn’t done anything wrong, really, it’s just the monotony of almost a decade of being with the same person that’s killing me. Especially now that I’m feeling all these thrills and emotions with someone new. Or is there some middle ground where the three of us are happy?”
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