Chip Chick
He could always tell when his wife had been speaking to her ex, as immediately after her texts and calls to this man, his wife would treat him terribly and call him names.
“This entire time, she has been gaslighting me by telling me it’s nothing to worry about and that I’m being paranoid and unreasonable,” he said.
“That the reason they talk is because she needs emotional support for me drinking and being a bad husband in general. “I’m a bad guy that wont let her have any friends.” “I am a watchdog who surveils her every move and won’t let her out of the house.” All this is completely and totally false.”
“She even had the guy call me and tell me it was harmless and that I should not try to stop them, as it will only make my wife want to call him all the more.”
Currently, his wife has decreased the interactions she has with her ex, though they speak at least two or three times in a given week.
He felt as if he had no choice but to stop putting up such a fight about it, and when his wife does call her ex when she’s around him, he’s not so bothered by it.
What upsets him is when his wife calls her ex and then attempts to hide it from him.
“This guy’s wife knows they talk, but has no idea the things he’s said to her,” he continued. “I’m kind of waiting to see if she can actually hold to her promises that she’ll only talk to him in my presence.”
“If I catch her hiding it again, the guy’s wife is going to know absolutely everything. What are everyone’s thoughts here?”
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