She Told Her Boyfriend It Wasn’t Cool To Show Up To Her House Uninvited And Let Himself In
Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner seemingly wanted to be with you during all hours of the day, even if you were sick or not in the mood to see them?
One teenager is annoyed at her boyfriend, who wouldn’t leave her alone and showed up at her house when she was very sick and did not want to see him.
She’s 19, and her boyfriend is 20-years-old. Over the last few weeks, she was dealing with a nasty sickness. She was bedridden for most of the time and had rough symptoms like congestion, a sore throat, and a fever.
Because she was so sick, she hadn’t seen her boyfriend in a while, which was difficult for him, as he likes to spend a lot of time with her.
When she first got sick, she encouraged him to stay away, as he has younger siblings at home, and she didn’t want to risk him spreading her sickness around.
However, her boyfriend was very persistent and constantly texted her about how much he wanted to see her. She did her best to keep him away as she felt awful.
But in the middle of the week, her boyfriend decided to find a way to see her despite her protests.
It was a weekday, and her parents were away at work. Her boyfriend works Monday through Friday, so she figured he was at work, too. She was in and out of sleep at home when, around 2:00 pm, she woke up to someone rubbing her back.
“Before opening my eyes, I [thought] it [was] my father home on his lunch [break],” she said.
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“Nope, it was my boyfriend. I [was] very shocked at first and asked him what he [was] doing here. He said he couldn’t stand being apart and wanted to surprise me.”
“I then asked how he even got in because my parents always lock the door before leaving, and he said he guessed the garage combination because it’s the same digits as my phone password.”
She was taken aback by her boyfriend’s behavior and told him it wasn’t cool to show up to her house uninvited and let himself in.
Then, he told her he was concerned that she was mad at him or didn’t want to see him for other reasons than being sick, so he stopped by to see what was happening.
After going back and forth for a while, her boyfriend told her she should be grateful that he visited her and that she should stop “whining.”
“After a while, he left, mostly because I made a point to say my parents didn’t know [he’s] here and wouldn’t be happy with me for having [him] over here without their permission,” she recalled.
Her boyfriend hasn’t spoken to her since his unexpected visit, and she’s unsure how to approach the situation.
Should she apologize to her boyfriend, or does he need to apologize?
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