He Found Out His Girlfriend Knowingly Dated And Had A Baby With A Guy Who Got A Bunch Of Other Women Pregnant And Ditched Them Before Her, So He Broke Up With Her
This guy has been dating a 30-year-old single mother for a little under a year, and from the start, he knew she had a child – who is now 2-years-old. He was totally fine with that, too.
The only question he had was whether or not the baby’s father would be around often, and his girlfriend said that he wouldn’t be.
“I asked because I know some baby daddies can be crazy with their baby momma’s new boyfriends, so I wanted to know what I was gonna get into,” he recalled.
Anyway, that was pretty much all they talked about in regard to her child’s father until more recently, when his girlfriend’s cousin had a birthday party.
After receiving the invite, his girlfriend asked him to attend the party with her. Then, when they arrived, he realized that one of his girlfriend’s cousins was also pregnant.
However, what shocked him was when his girlfriend’s cousin started complaining about the father of her child – calling the guy a bum who ditched her. He couldn’t help but realize that the father of her baby had the same name as the father of his girlfriend’s child.
At that point, he asked his girlfriend about the coincidence and found out that both his girlfriend and her cousin shared the same baby daddy.
“So I jokingly asked if he has any more baby mommas, and my girlfriend said yes,” he revealed.
He was surprised by that and kept asking more questions. This led him to discover that the same guy had gotten four different women pregnant and ditched them all before dating his girlfriend. To make matters worse, his girlfriend actually knew about the guy’s track record and still decided to enter a relationship with him anyway!
Kateryna – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
This pushed him to ask why his girlfriend even wanted to date a guy like that. But, all she had to say for herself was that the father of her child was charming and charismatic back then; meanwhile, she was “dumb.”
After that, he needed to take some time to reflect on everything he learned, and in the end, he just decided to break up with his girlfriend.
“I just basically thought that there was no way I could be with such poor judgment and that she was old enough to know better,” he revealed.
On the one hand, he does feel bad about calling it quits over this. Still, he genuinely doesn’t feel like he can trust his girlfriend’s judgment anymore – especially if a guy being “charming” and “charismatic” was all it took to win her over.
Still, he’s unsure if ending their relationship just because the father of her child also got a bunch of other women pregnant was really an overreaction or not.
Can you understand why his girlfriend’s choice to still date the father of her child was shocking? Do you think he had a right to break up with her over it or not? What would you have done?
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