He Told His Fiancée If She Goes On Vacation With Her Ex-Husband, Their Relationship Is Over
This 42-year-old man has spent close to two years with his 32-year-old fiancée named Jane. He actually met Jane while she was still living with her ex-husband, Ben.
Back then, Ben was saving up enough money to move out, and Jane has a 7-year-old son with Ben.
He says that Ben has always despised them, and that dislike only deepened after he proposed to Jane within a week of her divorce from Ben being completed.
If he and Ben are in the same room together, Ben acts like he doesn’t exist. In fact, he honestly has never said a word to Ben.
“Jane initiated the separation as she realized she was no longer in love with Ben,” he explained.
“The divorce was amicable and they’ve remained friends and share custody of their son. As far as I know, Ben hasn’t dated anyone since they split.”
Anyway, Jane just informed him that Ben asked her to go on vacation with him and their son this upcoming summer.
The vacation will be at an all-inclusive resort located in Greece and will last 10 days. Ben already booked a suite for all of them with separate bedrooms, and Jane just has to pay for her plane tickets to go.
Jane believes it will be wonderful for her son to be with both of his parents, as he’s had to spend several years bouncing between two homes. He doesn’t agree and is of the opinion that their son will just feel confused.
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He was married before Jane and has a 14-year-old daughter from that relationship, but when he asked Jane if he and his daughter could come on the trip, she laughed at him.
“That led to an argument and me saying that Ben was clearly still in love with her and that this was completely inappropriate,” he said.
“She said he’s not in love with her, and she’s certainly not in love with him, and at the end of the day, their son comes first, and this will be good for him.”
“I said if she goes, then it’s over between us. She burst into tears…and left. We don’t live together yet, so we didn’t see or speak to each other for 2 days.”
Jane did send him a text saying she informed Ben she couldn’t go on vacation. He then called her to smooth things over, but ever since, Jane has acted like she is still upset with him.
He does feel a tiny bit terrible for how he put his foot down, but he also thinks it’s completely insane that Jane even entertained this trip.
What advice do you have for him?
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