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“The thing is, he never did. He tried dating apps but got discouraged quickly. I always dated girls with the hope that it would be someone we could date together. This only happened once…but the girl turned out to be not so good, and [things] ended quickly.”
So back when everything was wonderful, she was fine with her husband dating around. Currently, they’re still in a rough patch, and she does not feel stable or safe.
She’s honestly pretty worried and upset with how things are between them. When her husband recently brought up wanting to date other women now, she immediately felt mad and hurt.
She shut her husband down and said he’s not allowed to date, and if he wants to pursue other women, she wants out of their marriage.
Her husband accepted her position and mentioned she’s pretty much his ideal woman. He’s positive they will be happy with one another in the long run, but he kind of has FOMO from not having a lot of experience with other women prior to dating her.
“So my husband is not a man who gets a lot of attention generally like he is not a model or anything,” she added.
Being in Columbia has made her husband just feel like it might be exciting to explore dating since he doesn’t view it as a threat to their marriage. He won’t be there for long, and it’s far away from where they live.
She’s considering potentially allowing her husband to date or kiss women he meets, but she isn’t down for him to sleep with them.
“I have some extra rules like full disclosure and no bringing any of that home, so closed contact afterward,” she continued.
“But I don’t know…it does not make me feel good, but I also kind of understand…” What advice do you have for her?
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