Her Mother-In-Law Fat Shamed Her After Giving Birth, So She No Longer Wants To Spend Time With Her
Five months ago, this 26-year-old woman and her 26-year-old husband welcomed their first child into the world.
She and her husband are thrilled to be parents and absolutely adore their baby girl. Her family has been a huge support system, making them dinner and also helping them adjust to their new roles as a mom and dad.
In contrast, her in-laws are starkly different from her own family. They rarely visit and expect her and her husband to drive 20 minutes to their house to spend time with them.
Her in-laws also offered essentially no help after she gave birth, which was fine by her. When their baby was three-months-old, they finally brought her to visit her in-laws.
“After the first month, my MIL began commenting about how much she prioritized “losing the baby weight” after she had her first baby,” she explained.
“At first I didn’t think anything of it, I thought she was just voicing her experience as many people do when they are around babies. She then started commenting on my baby’s chubby cheeks and how similar they are to mine.”
“I felt a bit hurt but let it slide once again. The final straw was when my husband was talking to her casually about my wanting to start going on runs again and how we were planning on making it work since our baby is very attached to me.”
Her mother-in-law loudly remarked for the whole family to hear that she should start out walking before going back to running.
She has always been into running and only stopped because of her pregnancy, and this comment hurt her feelings deeply.
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She has struggled with eating disorders in the past and still does, so anytime someone comments on anything related to her body, it’s triggering for her.
She knows her mother-in-law loves discussing appearances behind everyone’s backs, but she never thought her mother-in-law could be cruel to her face.
She admits she’s not skinny right now, but she lives in a way that is active and healthy, so her weight shouldn’t be any concern for her mother-in-law.
After hearing what her mother-in-law has to say, she has no interest in spending any time around her in the future.
“She makes me feel like crap about myself, and my husband is backing me up 100%,” she said.
“His mom is angry because she thinks we are just keeping her grandchild away from her and believes it is unfair.”
What advice do you have for her?
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