She’s Positive Her Fiancé Is Engaged To Both Her And Another Woman And Has Been Cheating On Her For Years
How would you feel if you found out that the person you’re supposed to marry wasn’t only engaged to you but another person at the same time?
One woman is unsure what to do after discovering that her fiancé has been engaged to someone else he’s been seeing for 10 to 15 years.
She and her fiancé have been together for just over 10 years. Their relationship has been complicated, to say the least, as she’s ignored many red flags from her fiancé over the years.
Red flags popped up when they started dating. For instance, her fiancé would refuse to do typical boyfriend things like spend the night at her place, invite her to his place, answer her phone calls on the first ring, etc.
“The list goes on and on, but he always had some reason for all of it, and I believed him because, at the time, I had no reason to doubt him,” she explained.
One of the reasons she stayed with her fiancé was because he was extremely supportive during the long custody battle she went through for custody of her daughter. He stood by her side and gave her the impression that they would move in together, get married, and start a family when everything was settled.
But once the custody battle was over, her fiancé continued to find new reasons to put off any of these things.
Her fiancé’s suspicious behavior became worse over the years. At one point, he began renting a shed, where he kept furniture, women’s clothes, accessories, and baking supplies, none of which were hers.
Her fiancé would claim he was close to his aunts, uncles, and female cousins and that most of the things in the shed belonged to them.
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Then, one day, in all those random belongings, she found a framed memento listing a location where he and someone had gotten engaged about one year before she started dating him.
When her fiancé discovered she had taken the memento, he became angry, insisting it belonged to his family and that she was overreacting.
For years, these kinds of incidents continued, and her fiancé became increasingly sketchy, yet she stayed.
Things came to a head when her fiancé accidentally rang her phone a few days ago.
She knew he had pocket-dialed her when she picked up, but she stayed on the phone, wondering if she could hear anything.
She heard her fiancé walking into a woman’s home. She heard him compliment the woman in the same way he does with her and listened to the woman tell him she had made him cookies.
To make matters worse, she heard her fiancé tell the woman he loved her, and she said she loved him too. After that, she heard them make loving small talk, and she had to hang up.
She tried to FaceTime her fiancé several times after the revealing call, but he never picked up. Instead, he called her back and eventually cut her off when she asked him why he wasn’t answering her.
Her fiancé returned home later that day, and when she tried to confront him about the shocking call, he brushed off her concerns and told her it was a misunderstanding.
After doing some online digging, she managed to find the woman her fiancé was talking to on the other side of the phone and found her TikTok account.
In several of the woman’s videos, she talked about her fiancé and referred to him as her fiancé. The woman claimed to have been with him longer than she has and even created a video on the day she baked him those cookies.
“I know I’m not crazy, but I admittedly have been acting crazy because who wouldn’t after all of this?” she asked.
“I’m not sure where to go from here.”
While the most logical response would be to leave this guy, she doesn’t have a lot of money, and he’s been extremely controlling her personal life, so she feels trapped.
How would you react if this happened to you?
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