Her Boyfriend Screams At The Mother Of His Child, And She Doesn’t Think It’s Right
This 25-year-old girl is currently in dental school in Pennsylvania. She’s finishing up her final year, and five months ago, she met her boyfriend at her school.
While he happens to be the same age as her, he’s a year behind in their program. When she met her boyfriend, he was upfront about having a toddler-aged son.
He clarified to her that he was never with the mother of his son and that he has no intention of ever romantically being with her in the future.
“From what I gathered, they were intimate friends (FWBs, to be exact) for around three years or more,” she explained.
“Eventually, she ended up pregnant, and his first reaction was obviously anger, and he begged her to [end it]. Of course, she didn’t do that and had their son.”
“My boyfriend took this really hard as he was about to begin dental school, which is quite stressful, may I say. He holds a lot of anger and resentment towards his child’s mother.”
Her boyfriend absolutely hates the mother of his son because he specifically can’t stand that he got her, of all women, pregnant.
Her boyfriend has made his opinion clear to her, as well as the mother of his son. She thinks it’s strange that her boyfriend holds so much hatred in his heart for the mother of his son since he slept with her for years.
If she was in this poor woman’s shoes, her heart would be broken. While she cares deeply for her boyfriend, she doesn’t understand how he can be so hateful.
Halfpoint – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual child
She recently overheard her boyfriend on the phone with the mother of his son, and he was literally screaming at the woman for texting him about his son instead of texting his aunt, “his mediator.”
He was yelling that he hates her and hates that he has a son with her. He also shouted that he was going to be richer than the mother of his son as soon as he gets out of school, but she will forever be nothing.
“He said she’s only a good mom because she’s trying to prove something to herself and everyone else,” she said.
“Again stated that he doesn’t hate her cause she didn’t [terminate] his child but that he hates her because he got HER pregnant and he never wanted a kid with HER. But since she got knocked up and he has a kid with her, he hates her more than anything.”
“That he was never going to be with her and was just using her. But since she has his kid, he feels “trapped.” He was locked in the bedroom when he was on the phone, so I couldn’t stop him, but it was almost an hour of him and her going back and forth. I’m pretty sure the mother ended up hanging up; he seemed irritated when he got out.”
“Might I add, he loves his son and sees him whenever he can. He’s expressed to me that he wants to provide for him once he has his career and be more active in his life. He just doesn’t want to be a part of the mom’s life or ever speak to her.”
She’s gotten to spend time with her boyfriend’s family on three different occasions, and she’s aware that they talk to the mother of her boyfriend’s son a lot.
Her boyfriend’s family doesn’t discuss how nasty her boyfriend is to the mother of his son, and they simply say her boyfriend took the pregnancy hard and is still stressed.
She has not yet met the mother of her boyfriend’s son, but she’s looked her up on social media. To her, it looks like this woman is very well raising her son like a single mom.
She has seen some text messages exchanged between her boyfriend and the mother of his son, and it never appears that this woman is rude back to her boyfriend.
“I love my boyfriend, I do, but I admit it’s usually him who calls her first to start their verbal rampage,” she added.
“The messages I’ve seen her send him are simply about their son and when he’s going to see the kid. I think some women would find it amusing that their BF talks badly about their child’s mother or how much he hates her cause that means he has no feelings toward her.”
“But I find that to be hypocritical. I don’t think it’s right the way he talks to her, and personally, if I hated someone as much as he says he hates her, I wouldn’t go out of my way to spend almost an hour arguing and insulting said person. The way he gets about her is just crazy; he gets so angry and emotional. I can’t help but feel that there are some deeper feelings there.”
She doesn’t condone her boyfriend’s behavior and thinks it’s really weird. What do you think?
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