She Thinks Her Husband Is Crossing A Line With Their Son’s Daycare Teacher
Some people truly are more social and friendly than others, and this 33-year-old woman’s 36-year-old husband is that kind of guy.
She’s never had a problem with how outgoing her husband is up until recently. She now thinks that her husband is crossing a line with their son’s daycare teacher.
She found out several weeks ago that their son’s 45-year-old daycare teacher told her husband that their son resembles her son, who is still living in Cuba.
“Then, he told me on a different instance that she asked if he cooks my son’s lunches because she took a bite from the pasta and thought it was really good,” she explained.
“She recently asked me what the restaurant my husband works at is called because he invited her there, and she couldn’t find it online.”
“When I asked my husband about this, he said he invited all the daycare teachers, just like he has done in the past with my son’s therapist, and that it has never been a problem before.”
She admitted to her husband that she’s uneasy with how friendly he’s acting towards the teacher, and he defended his actions by saying the daycare teachers help their son out so much, and that was the motivation for his kindness.
He went on to say he doesn’t want to always view the world in such a negative way, which also encourages him to be more generous than perhaps other people.
She tried her hardest to empathize with her husband’s position, but a day ago, when she went to get her son from daycare, one of the other teachers insisted that the teacher she has a problem with had something to share with her.
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“At that point, she looked uncomfortable and said that she was buying wine from my husband (which he sells) and to please not let the front office know because they’re not allowed to fraternize with the parents,” she said.
“I got upset that he was still carrying on with the friendship after I voiced my complaints and my husband got mad at me and said I have no faith in him.”
“I said that I trusted him but that I felt she was getting the wrong idea and I wasn’t comfortable with it and to just put some distance between them.”
Her husband is currently angry with her, and she’s out of patience. Her husband is an adult who should absolutely be aware of enacting healthy boundaries between other adults.
What irritates her further is that many single dads who have kids at the same daycare always go out of their way to socialize with her.
One dad, in particular, even requested that she give him a tour of the college where she’s employed, so she resolved to be less nice to him so to prevent this man from getting any ideas.
“I feel like my husband wouldn’t be comfortable with me giving that man a tour, and it’s the same as him inviting this daycare teacher to the restaurant where he works,” she continued.
She’s left wondering how she can get her husband to see things from her point of view. What advice do you have for her?
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