She Went Off On Her Sister For Suggesting She’s Getting Married Because Of A Secret Pregnancy
This 22-year-old girl and her now-fiancé, who’s 26, began dating three years ago, back when she was 19. He was her first boyfriend, too.
But, while many people go through plenty of breakups before finding “the one,” she didn’t have to. Her fiancé just proposed to her in early October, and she was thrilled to say yes.
Then, she decided to announce her engagement to her family at their Halloween party this year.
“Everyone seemed to be excited and congratulated him and me,” she recalled.
The only person who had some hesitations was her 34-year-old sister, who wound up pulling her aside to talk later that night. Her sister also proceeded to ask whether she was pregnant.
“My sister was concerned that we were moving too fast and the only reason we were engaged is because I could be pregnant,” she detailed.
She was extremely offended that her sister would insinuate that and blew up on her, telling her sister that “some women in life can still get the ring before the baby.”
Her sister claimed that she was only asking out of concern, yet the damage was done since her sister ultimately walked away with an attitude.
“And after that, I told my fiancé I wanted to leave and gave her the stank eye out the door,” she said.
Pixel-Shot – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people – pictured above, a woman shows off her engagement ring while hugging her fiancé
Tensions were obviously still high between her and her sister, though, and the next day, she received an “overdramatic” paragraph from her sister via text.
The message supposedly talked about how not everyone takes the same path, and her sister swore she was only trying to help.
She, on the other hand, just didn’t appreciate anyone assuming her fiancé felt pressured to propose for any reason.
“In our family, there has been a history of only getting married because of an accidental pregnancy. My sister’s comment made me feel like he was proposing out of necessity,” she reasoned.
Nonetheless, her mom has heard about their argument and told her that she should’ve been more sensitive, particularly due to the fact that her sister and her brother-in-law are going through a “rough patch” in their own marriage.
That’s why she’s now questioning if going off on her sister like that actually did make her a jerk.
Does it sound like her sister was genuinely looking out for her? Do you think she owes her sister an apology or not?
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