She’s Ready To Divorce Her Husband After Finding Out She’s Not The First Girl He Ever Slept With
Six years ago, this woman met her husband after a mutual friend connected them, and four years ago, they tied the knot.
All along, she assumed that she was the first girl her husband ever slept with, and he was her first as well.
“I loved to tell people that we waited for each other,” she explained. “He was my soulmate, or so I thought.”
A week ago, she and her husband were hanging out with their friends Todd and Molly and playing a fun game together (Todd is actually her husband’s oldest friend).
She and her husband were winning the game, which was clearly based on who knew the most about their significant other.
They then got to the question of who was the first person you ever slept with while having to name them.
She wrote her husband’s name, of course, and her husband wrote her name. She couldn’t help but giggle, but then Todd got angry and insisted that it was time for her husband to tell her the truth.
She fired back that it was the honest truth; she was the first girl to ever be with her husband. After all, he confirmed this to be true over the years.
Todd then blurted out that her husband slept with a girl in high school named Jennifer while her husband tried to make Todd be quiet.
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“I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest,” she said. “My husband and Molly started yelling at Todd.”
“Even Molly, who I thought was my friend, knew. We ended up leaving early. My husband explained that the woman was just a fling and that she meant nothing to him.”
“The only reason he had lied [was] because he knew it was important to wait until my wedding day and that I was too special to lose. So he lied. He lied to me for 6 years.”
Her husband led her to believe she was his first, even on their wedding day. Now, she’s desperately trying to forgive and forget, but every time she looks at her husband, she feels ill.
While she knows this happened well before she came into her husband’s life, it makes her feel like her husband cheated on her in some way because he was dishonest.
Ever since finding out the truth, Molly has been texting and calling her to say sorry for keeping this secret, but she still feels like everyone stabbed her in the back.
She’s left wondering if it’s wrong of her to want to divorce her husband, or at the very least separate from him, after finding out she’s not the first girl he ever slept with.
What do you think?
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