Imagine your life turning into a real-life psychological thriller where your spouse’s double life is now following you around town. She thought her biggest hurdle was processing the news that her husband had spent years cheating on her, but then she noticed his mistress following her.
What are you supposed to do when you continuously encounter the person clearly obsessed with claiming your spot?
This 32-year-old woman is separated from her 40-year-old husband at the moment, due to an affair he was having for years on end.
She actually found out about his mistress five years ago, and they were able to successfully reconcile. Her husband promised he was done with the other woman, and she trusted him. They actually had their four-year-old son during that period of time.
But throughout the start of the year, she started receiving messages on Instagram and Facebook from random accounts stating that her husband was cheating on her.
“The DMs had details about the trips he’d taken with her, how they go on dates, have a child together, and all his friends, mum, and siblings knew her,” she explained.
“I asked him often if he was still seeing her, and he denied it. What pushed me over the edge was when I saw earrings and a scrunchie that weren’t mine in my car after he’d borrowed it for a day.”
“I went through his phone and saw that he was still with her. They even had…tapes, and he was constantly telling her how much better [the physical romance] was with her. How he loved her and wanted to be with her.”
It’s apparent to her that her husband is in love with his mistress, and he ultimately owned up to all of the sordid details, such as the fact that they have a secret child.
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She left their house after her husband’s confession and went to stay with her mom. It’s been a month since they officially separated.
Her issue currently is that she’s convinced her husband’s mistress is stalking her, since this woman keeps popping up wherever she goes.
Her husband’s mistress has shown up at the bookstore where she buys school supplies for her kids, the playground she brings them to, and the hairdresser she frequents.
“We went to get ice cream once, and I could’ve sworn I saw her. I know what she looks like from the pictures and videos they have together,” she continued.
“I feel like I’m going crazy. These are all public places, so there’s nothing I can do about it. She just sits there and stares at us. It’s making me very uneasy. What is the best way to address this situation?”
“I can’t ask for her to be kicked out of a public place. She’s always with her daughter anyway, so it never looks weird that a woman and her child are at the same place I go to with my kids. I’m not speaking to my husband unless it’s about the kids, and [I] don’t want to ask him yet.”
Wow, I wonder if her husband’s mistress put a tracking device in her car, and she for sure planted the scrunchie and earrings. She should address this with her husband and hurry up and get a divorce from him.
In the meantime, she should take a video of her husband’s mistress wherever she sees her, in case she needs the evidence later on, or in the event it comes in handy for filing a restraining order against her.
What advice do you have for her?
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