Keira (@keirahirano on TikTok) knows that she has a potentially unhinged take on dating here, because she’s the most hands-off girlfriend you have ever heard of.
Keira is so into giving her man free will that she once let her boyfriend sleep in a bed with another girl. Keira says she just thinks that if a guy she’s with wants to do something and cheat on her with another girl, he can go ahead and do that while watching her leave so fast it’s not even funny.
“I let all of my boyfriends follow whoever they want to follow, let them hang out with whoever they want to hang out with as late as they want to do that, but I tell them that hey, if you’re going to go and do this, this is a reflection of what you think of me, ok? It has nothing to do with you; it has everything to do with me, actually,” Keira explained in her video.
“So, if you want to cheat on me or go sleep in the same bed as somebody else, that just means that you actually have no value for me as a person.”
“And towards the end of one of my relationships, when that started happening, I obviously was like ok, we’re done.”
Keira went on to point out that many of her friends don’t understand why she allowed her boyfriend to slide under the sheets with someone else.
Keira maintained that all of her boyfriends have free will, and it’s not her job to be their mommies. She’s dating adult men, and it’s not her place to parent any of them.
Keira says that her job as a girlfriend is to be an extension of the man that she’s with. So, no, Keira would never sleep in someone else’s bed while in a relationship or hang out with people of the opposite gender until the early hours of the morning, because she has respect for her boyfriend.
And, there you have it, Keira’s hot take on dating and relationships, which made her friends freak out when she shared it with them.
“I’m the same way. Whatever they want to do, they’ll do it in front of you or behind your back. So why stress it?” one person commented on Keira’s video.
“I will always live by the fact that I cannot prevent cheating, so why be controlling?” someone else added.
“It’s giving, ‘if you think you can get him, you can have him,’ and I live for it,” a third person weighed in.
“No, same (internally though I’m screaming), but this is how trust works, unfortunately, and I have to remind myself every day to trust that whatever is going to happen will happen regardless if I try to control it or not,” another person said.
What do you think of Keira’s advice?
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