If you found out that your spouse secretly violated your sibling’s privacy, would you feel like you could overcome it and stay in the marriage, or would you be scrambling to file for divorce?
This woman has spent the last decade married to her husband, and they have two amazing kids together. Her husband is slightly addicted to content that features adults, but that hasn’t bothered her, to be honest.
Overall, she would characterize their marriage as safe and, well, pretty average. But last week, that all changed after she made a disgusting discovery.
“A few days ago, I found out that my husband secretly recorded my sister while she was changing clothes in our house. There is no misunderstanding about what happened,” she said.
“He admitted it. Ever since then, I feel like I’ve been living in a nightmare. I keep looking at him and wondering who this person actually is.”
“Was this really the first time? Are there other recordings? Other things I don’t know about? This wasn’t an accident. It wasn’t a momentary lapse in judgment. He made a conscious decision to do it.”
Her husband has said sorry to her multiple times while requesting that she not tell a single soul. Her husband wants this to be their little secret.
He has additionally promised that he will be a better man, but it makes her feel ill when she thinks about the fact that he secretly recorded her sister taking her clothes off.
She is lost about how to proceed here, and she has not told anyone about the recording. She hasn’t even filled her sister in on the privacy violation.
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“I’m so heartbroken for her. I just don’t know how to explain this to family members without completely blowing up everyone’s lives,” she continued.
“What makes this even harder is that we have children. For people who have been through something similar, is there any coming back from this?”
“How do you ever trust someone again after discovering they’re capable of violating another person’s privacy like this?”
I’m sorry to say it, but there is no bouncing back from what her husband did. Her husband doesn’t seem to be remorseful at all. If one of her kids is a girl, I would always be worried that he might do the same thing to one of her friends as they get older.
Recording someone without their permission when they are in a vulnerable state makes her husband a predator, and someone she can no longer trust.
Her husband is a massive creep, and she’s delusional for thinking this is something she can look past. She needs to tell her sister what happened and file for divorce.
What advice do you have for her?
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