After finishing up with a client, TikToker @oceanwaveaura was triggered and had a lot to say about “the other woman” when it comes to cheating and affairs.
So, while the client was getting beauty services done by her, she talked about how she got together with her current man. The client was married but started dating another man for four years because her marriage was basically over anyway.
She was sleeping in another room, and she and her husband were very distant.
The man she was dating was married and claimed that he wanted to get a divorce. Now, they are together and are both divorced from their spouses. She was proud of the fact that she had gotten this guy and talked down on his ex-wife, making her out to be the villain.
“I’m coming from a completely different perspective,” said @oceanwaveaura. “I’m the wife, and my husband was running around, lying to people.”
“He was with another woman…my husband’s other woman knew he was married. My husband was probably lying and saying that we were having troubles.”
The other woman was a client as well. Her husband, who was a personal trainer, had sent the woman to her studio to get her eyebrows done by her. After meeting her, the woman proceeded to hang out with her husband and said that they were friends.
According to @oceanwaveaura, only desperate women hang out with married men struggling in their relationships. The right thing to do would be to let him figure out his relationship or get divorced.
“The reason I want to talk about this is because I see a lot of women saying why are we blaming the other woman; we should be blaming the man?” said @oceanwaveaura.
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She points out that the other woman is to blame just as much as the cheating husband. A woman who messes with another woman’s husband is not innocent.
In the comments section, many TikTok users shared similar sentiments and described the times they were betrayed by their spouses.
“I’m a wife and can confirm they always know about us. They’re little cockroaches that come in your home and can’t get rid of,” commented one user.
“Say it louder. We had just lost our child, she didn’t even know me, but was so proud to take my husband right after my child died. I’m so traumatized from the double whammy in two months. Brutal,” wrote another.
“This!! I had an old boyfriend reach out to me, who is now married, asking if we could get a coffee. For what? Ask your wife to have coffee, period,” shared a third.
“With my husband 32 years. Caught him cheating with this other woman for 16 years during our marriage. We have two children together. She knew us. It’s disgusting!!” exclaimed a fourth.
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