If you were dating someone who said they were single, but then you found out that they most likely weren’t before they ghosted you, would you want to get revenge on them?
This woman spent two months dating a man, and they both are single parents, so organizing dates was a bit of a hardship between balancing their kids.
Speaking of their children, that meant they couldn’t go out on regular dates, so their dates consisted of them equally spending time at one another’s houses.
“We weren’t just hooking up; we talked every single day and had long phone calls twice a week. We had deep, personal conversations about our lives and our struggles as parents,” she explained.
Things were going well, but then three months ago, they agreed to have a date at her house. Ten minutes prior to his arrival time, he sent her a text stating he had a stomachache and had to cancel.
He did say he would call her later on. However, two hours went by, and she didn’t hear a peep out of him, which was fishy. It just didn’t sit right with her, so she took matters into her own hands.
This guy’s house is a five-minute walk from hers, so she went over to check in on him. She walked up to the front door and knocked.
“…He opened the door, looking absolutely shocked and panicked. Without saying a word, he literally shut the door in my face. A minute later, he sent me a text: ‘Get away from my house, you psycho,'” she added.
“He blocked me on everything immediately. No explanation, no closure, nothing. I’m 99% sure he wasn’t actually single, and either his girlfriend/wife was home, or he was seeing someone else seriously. Either way, it really hurt me.”
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“It has been three months since, and I still can’t wrap my head around it. The way he discarded me like trash after all those personal conversations is eating me alive. I want him to feel even a fraction of the stress he caused me.”
Since this guy doesn’t seem single to her and wasted her time, she wants to get revenge on him by mailing him a card saying she’s pregnant, so they really have to talk.
She’s not truly pregnant at all, but she wants to make him reach out to her and own up to his bad behavior. Also, she would love to see him squirm.
She realizes her plan is immoral and deranged, but due to his lying and the fact that he referred to her as a psycho for wanting to see if he was ok, she thinks this will make them even.
Two wrongs don’t make a right, and since this guy had a really bad reaction to her showing up at his house, I worry that her revenge plan will put her in a dangerous situation with him.
I think it’s best here for her to simply move on and let it all go.
What do you think of her plan?
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By Bre Avery Zacharski
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