She Used To Judge Stay-At-Home Moms, But She’s Going Viral For What She Has To Say About Them Now
I think we can all agree that some people are so judgemental, especially when it comes down to the topic of moms that stay-at-home and moms that don’t.
Bridgette Ann is a mom living in Winona, Minnesota, and she full-on admits she used to judge stay-at-home moms.
She judged these moms for not having jobs, but now that the tables are turned…
…Well, she’s changing her tune and going viral for what she has to say about them now.
Here’s what Bridgette has to say about stay-at-home moms.
Facebook; Bridgette smiles in the photo above
“Everyone thinks being a stay-at-home mom full time is easy,” she started out by saying on Facebook.
She also posted a photo of herself crying and shared that people think, “that we are lucky to be able to not have to work. That we are lazy. That it’s not “real” work so we have nothing to complain about.”
She then said that’s just not the truth at all, and that being a stay-at-home mom is really overwhelming and downright lonely.
Facebook; pictured above is the photo of herself crying that Bridgette shared along with what she had to say
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“You can’t do anything by yourself; go to the bathroom, enjoy a cup of coffee, read, hell you can’t even scrub the sh*t out of pants for the 3rd time in a day without someone crying or screaming at your leg.”
“You don’t get breaks unless they are sleeping; which even then you use that time to clean up. You struggle to come up with ways to entertain someone for literally 12 hours a day every day.”
“You wear the same clothes that smell like sweat and tears for days at a time because it’s already stained and no use in ruining more clothes. You forget what it means or feels like to be an individual; because your entire existence now revolves around that child.”
“You look at working moms and get jealous because you wish you could have an excuse to have an adult conversation without being interrupted.”
“You lock yourself in the bathroom and scream into a towel while crying because you need a second to breathe; all while a child is banging on the door to get in…”
“Let that sink in, most of us don’t even have the luxury to cry and be frustrated in peace..and when we do break down people question it; “like what do you have to cry about you get to sit home all day.”
“I was one of those people who judged SAHM’s. But I get it now.”
“The people who said they’d be there to help have all but disappeared, and you’re left with this overwhelming sense of failure.”
“My house isn’t clean, I’m not clean, the dishes aren’t done, I have screamed already today, I have cried, and I have felt so damn guilty that my child was here to witness it.”
“But I am alone….and I am lonely. Check in on your SAHM friends….we are NOT okay.”
I think we can all agree that stay-at-home moms are valuable, and it is a full-time job raising children. You can view her original post here.
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