Her Fiancé Is Accusing Her Of Catering To Her Psychotic Best Friend At Their Wedding, But All She’s Trying To Do Is Make Sure Her Best Friend Will Be There
She’s Getting Married In A Month
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A 28-year-old woman is getting married next month, but she now has a problem with her 29-year-old best friend, who is also going to be her Man Of Honor.
Her Best Friend And Man Of Honor Has One Problem
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They’ve been friends since she was 7-years-old, but here’s the thing about him now in his adult years.
He’s Psychotic
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He has been diagnosed as psychotic, and he experiences hallucinations and delusions. While he is not on medication right now, he’s trying to figure that out to help him.
He’s Doing Well, But Is Paranoid About Snakes
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He is doing very well as of now, though he has a huge problem with snakes and is so paranoid about them.
He Can’t Even Walk On Grass He’s So Afraid Of Them
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“He can’t walk on grass without shoes or someone else with him, won’t go near marshes/lakes, and has candles and air fresheners that he believes repel snakes in his house,” she explained.
He Now Requires A Few Things In Order To Come To Her Backyard Wedding
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In order for him to be able to come to her outdoor backyard wedding, he asked a few things of her.
He Wants To Put Essential Oils Around The Backyard To Get Rid Of Snakes
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First, on the day of the wedding, he wants to get there a few hours before everyone so that he can use essential oils around the backyard to get rid of any snakes.
He Also Can’t Be Near Bushes Or Shadowy Spots
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Next, he insisted that he cannot be put close to shadowy spaces or bushes, and he doesn’t want to be near tablecloths that are long (she said this was not an issue because she is only having picnic tables without tablecloths at the wedding).
Also, He Needs To Wear His Essential Oil Instead Of Cologne
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Finally, he needs to be able to “wear his essential oils as cologne,” and again, this is a requirement that does not bother her because she thinks the smell is fine.
None Of Those Requirements Upset Her
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Nothing about what her friend said upsets her, and she thinks making sure his 3 requirements are met is just a non-issue.
Her Fiancé Isn’t Happy About Her Accommodating Her Best Friend
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She is more than happy to make sure he is comfortable so he can be there for her special day, but unfortunately, her fiancé does not agree with her and is insisting her friend is just manipulating her.
Her Fiancé Believes He’s Trying To Ruin Their Day
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Her fiancé also thinks her friend is trying to disrupt their wedding day and wants to be coddled the whole time.
He’s Only Asking To Use Essential Oils And Sit At A Table Minus A Tablecloth
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“He’s putting some essential oils around and sitting at a picnic table without a tablecloth,” she said.
She And Her Fiancé Got Into A Fight
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“I don’t see the issue, and my fiancé said that that’s part of the problem, and we got into a fight about it…”
She’s Left Wondering What To Do
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“Now IDK what to do because my fiancé says he doesn’t want essential oils at the wedding, but IMO, there’s no reason to ban them; it’s not like my friend sells them as a marketing thing.”
What Would You Do?
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How would you deal with this?
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