She Called Her Sister A Bridezilla Before Saying Her Wedding Isn’t Worth Going Broke Over And Dropping Out of The Bridal Party
Her Sister Is Getting Married In The Spring
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A woman’s older sister is going to be getting married next spring after getting engaged 5 years ago.
Initially, Her Sister Wanted A Tiny Little Wedding
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At first, her sister decided a year after getting engaged that she wanted a tiny wedding, but then she changed her mind about that.
Everything Was All Ready To Go
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Everyone who was part of the bridal party already had purchased their outfits, the wedding invitations had already been sent out, and everything was set to go.
But Then Her Sister Changed Her Mind
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But her sister had a change of heart and wanted her wedding to be “bigger and better.”
So She Told Her Sister She Could No Longer Be A Bridesmaid
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She was supposed to be her sister’s only bridesmaid back when the small wedding was still on…but after she was told the wedding was going to be far more elaborate, expensive, and time-consuming, she explained to her sister she could no longer be a bridesmaid.
Then Her Sister Came Up With A Dress Code For The Wedding
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Her sister decided to implement a dress code for the new wedding, and all the women in the family needed to wear blue or pink dresses. All the men in the family needed to wear white tuxes.
The Kids Invited Even Had To Dress A Certain Way
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All the little girls in the family needed to wear pink, while the younger boys were required to wear white with white shoes.
Her Sister Demanded Everyone Bring A Second Set Of Shoes, Too
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Her sister also said everyone would need to bring another change of shoes because “they had plans that would require a change of footwear.”
Her Sister Wanted Her Kids In The Wedding, And Their Outfits Cost $800 Total
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Her sister then mentioned she would like her 5-year-old and 1-year-old sons to be part of the wedding, but the outfits they were going to be wearing would cost her $400 per child.
She Can’t Afford To Pay That
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That’s $800 in outfits for 2 children, so she said they were not going to be in the wedding because they could not afford to pay that kind of money.
Her Sister’s New Wedding Venue Is Basically A Castle
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Her sister’s new wedding venue is a hotel that looks like a castle. It’s super expensive, super fancy, and a very long drive for everyone to get there.
And Everyone Has To Pay A Lot For Their Hotel Rooms
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There is no wedding package for the room rates at the hotel; instead, her sister has insisted that everyone in the family has to shell out more money to be on the beachside of the hotel.
Rooms Are $600 Per Night
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The rooms there cost $600 per night per person. For her to bring her children, it’s another $200 since the hotel has to give them beds for the kids.
Her Sister Needs Everyone To Stay There For This Reason
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As for why her sister says everyone needs to stay there? It’s because the day after her wedding, a photographer is showing up at 8 a.m. to take family photos on the beach.
She Can’t Afford Any Of This
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She just can’t afford to do any of this, and she thinks it’s ridiculous that everyone would need to be awake at 8 a.m. for photos.
She Called Her Sister A Bridezilla
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“I said she was being a bridezilla,” she explained. “She told me it’s her wedding, a once-in-a-lifetime event, and I should do this for her.”
Her Sister Argued With Her
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“I told her I couldn’t. She told me I should as her sister. As someone who loves her and wants to see her get married.”
She Said Her Wedding Isn’t Worth Going Broke Over
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“I told her that her wedding was not worth going broke over, not when I have two kids to feed, clothe, house, etc.”
Her Sister Flipped
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Well, her sister freaked out on her and accused her of not wanting her to be married while ruining everything for her.
So, She Dropped Out Of The Wedding
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So, she dropped out of the wedding entirely.
How would you deal with this?
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