She’s Being Accused Of Ruining Her Friend’s Engagement Dinner When All She Was Trying To Do Was Stick Up For Her
A woman says her friend Sarah recently invited her and her boyfriend to a special dinner she had planned to announce her engagement.
Sarah invited her and the rest of her very close friends, along with their significant others as well.
That evening, Sarah got up and told everyone that she was engaged, and all of her friends were eager to congratulate her.
The dinner was a fun time for everyone invited, but then one of Sarah’s friends made another announcement.
Sarah’s friend N told everyone at the table that she was pregnant, and everyone’s focus shifted from Sarah to N immediately.
Sarah and her fiancé clearly appeared upset after N made her own announcement, and this friend quickly asked Sarah if this was part of the plan.
Sarah replied that this was not how she envisioned the evening going, and Sarah mentioned that she did not give N permission to make that announcement.
Sarah tried to downplay things, but her friend was not about to let things slide, so here’s what she did.
“I get N’s attention loudly and everyone looks at me,” she explained. “I said, “You weren’t given permission to announce your pregnancy here.”
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“Sarah and her fiancé gathered everyone here and are paying for our meals. The night is about them… not you.”
“If you wanted a pregnancy announcement dinner you should have held it on your own time but you wanted to take the attention from Sarah and her fiancé away so badly that you’re ruining their engagement dinner?”
“You’re toxic.”
N began crying and told her she should not have spoken to her like that. Her response was to tell N she was hardly the first pregnant woman and she should be respectful of Sarah’s night.
N left soon after that with her husband in tow, and things were very awkward for a bit before returning to normal.
As soon as she got home that evening, her boyfriend accused her of ruining the engagement dinner and being a jerk.
Her boyfriend also insisted she owed N an apology and chastised her for making this her business when it wasn’t.
Luckily, Sarah is on her side and sent her a text thanking her for standing up to N.
Sarah did say that she did not have to word things the way that she did but she appreciated her gesture and the fact that N later left.
How would you handle this?
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