This Guy Is Complaining That His Fiancée Still Wears An Engagement Ring From Her Deceased Former Love Even Though She’s Engaged To Him
A man is complaining that his fiancée still wears an engagement ring from her deceased former love, even though she is engaged to him.
His fiancée was already engaged once prior to meeting him, and her fiancé sadly died after getting into a car accident less than 4 years ago.
He then met his fiancée on Tinder around a year and a half later, and he mentioned that his fiancée was in therapy at the time due to her fiancé’s passing.
His fiancée held nothing back from him, and on the first date that they went on, she sat down and told him about her fiancé who passed.
She also at the time was wearing the engagement ring that her deceased fiancé gave her, but she did not have it on her left hand; the ring was on her right hand.
He never mentioned the ring to her until several months after their first date together. When he did approach the topic, she told him that she is never going to take the ring off her right hand for as long as she is still alive.
“She said she understood if it was a dealbreaker but that’s how it has to be,” he explained.
“I was fine with it thinking it was a temporary coping thing. When I first went over to her house (she owned it with him) I saw pictures of him, the life they lived, etc. it felt weird.”
Despite being uncomfortable, he continued the relationship with her and she did end up selling the house that she lived in with her fiancé after them spending 8 months dating.
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She took the photos she had of her fiancé and put them in boxes. She purchased a condo, and this guy moved into that with her.
He eventually proposed, and they booked a place for their wedding.
One thing that is still bothering him is the fact that she is refusing to take off her deceased love’s engagement ring, which she wears on her right hand just like she explained to him not long into their relationship.
He did point out to her that he was upset about the engagement ring, and she replied that she feels bad it makes him feel upset, but she will keep wearing the ring until she dies.
She then mentioned that she was upfront with him about the ring, and he chose to keep the relationship going after knowing that she would not remove the ring.
His fiancée continued to say she loves him, but that a piece of her left when her former fiancé died.
“I can’t help but to think I’m competing with a ghost,” he admitted.
“That she never would of wanted me if he was still alive. What happens when we die and hypothetically there’s a heaven.”
“She meets back up with this guy and my ghost is s*** out of luck. Not trying to be funny and I know it sounds dumb but…why does she have to wear that ring.”
How would you deal with this?
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