Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her With Her Sister And Now That They’re Pregnant She’s Telling The Internet She Wants To Cut All Contact
A 25-year-old woman has a 23-year-old stepsister who has been in her life since she was 4-years-old.
Her dad got married to her stepsister’s mom, and after that, they became a close-knit family.
When her stepsister was 14, she was diagnosed with cancer, which she fought for 2 years before being able to beat it.
While her stepsister was sick, her parents made her give up all activities she had after school so that she could instead work and make enough money to help pay her stepsister’s medical expenses.
She was also required to take her stepsister to all of her doctor visits. She wasn’t allowed to exclude her sister from anything, not that she really got to go anywhere.
Fast forward to college, and she met her boyfriend named Ben during her junior year. They fell in love, moved in with one another after graduating, and were together for 3 years after that.
Then, this July, she walked in on her stepsister and Ben in her own bedroom. She immediately broke up with Ben, and he ended up moving out of their place.
“My sister apologized at first but then backed off,” she said. “I thought she was giving me space but last week she called and asked if we could meet up.”
“She told me that she and Ben were in love and were just telling me as a courtesy before they started posting photos online.”
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She was so upset by this news that she walked out of the place without paying and left her stepsister there alone.
After she left, her stepsister reached out asking that she pay her half of the bill, and then complained to their parents about how she wouldn’t accept the relationship.
“She told my parents who then called me to their house, telling me how disappointed in me they are for not supporting my sister’s relationship with Ben,” she continued.
“They brought up the fact that because she had cancer as a teenager, she never learned proper social etiquette, and has a hard time meeting people.”
Her parents threatened to stop speaking to her if she could not get over her stepsister and Ben being together.
She tried to argue her side, but her parents shut her down by accusing her of just “being jealous” of her stepsister.
The thing is, she is not jealous at all; she’s hurt. She’s hurt about how things ended with Ben, and she’s hurt that her sister stabbed her in the back by sleeping with her boyfriend.
“What I’m upset about is the fact that my sister chose Ben over me,” she explained.
“That she slept with Ben knowing he and I were in a long-term, committed relationship, and continues to be with him knowing how much it hurts me.”
Since she refused to accept the relationship, her family has not spoken to her. She then found out that her stepsister is pregnant and expecting a child with Ben.
Her sister is 4 months along, which means the cheating with Ben was going on for far longer than she even initially thought.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Your parents are enablers. ‘Cancer as a teen’ did not shrink wrap her and isolate her from the entirety of human mores and values forever and ever amen.”
“From what you describe, it sounds disturbingly like you have been deemed the cannon fodder of the family. Take some time for yourself, put them on the backburner.”
“I can only imagine this as a defense in a trial… “But your Honor, you can’t punish her for anything… SHE HAD CANCER AS A TEEN!!!!”
“You made extreme sacrifices during the years. She took your boyfriend and now she rubs it in your face. Her disease is deplorable, but it doesn’t give her a free pass to do everything she wants.”
“It’s so sad that she took Ben after you were together for 3 years. You don’t need to endorse their relationship.”
“Hopping on just to say that honestly, I’m petty enough that I’d just post this thread to any Facebook/ social media posts celebrating your sister’s relationship &/or pregnancy.”
“If there’s nothing wrong with their relationship, they shouldn’t mind everyone knows their history, right?”
“Oh heck no! Your sister is using an illness she had a decade ago as an excuse to sleep with your boyfriend and gave that be okay. It’s not. The fact your parents are going along with this smacks of having a golden child.”
“I’m sorry to say that sometimes the trash takes itself out. Your sister is awful. Your parents are and WERE awful (it was not your job to quit every activity to pay your sister’s medical bills and drive her around).”
“It’s good that you know this now and can get some therapy and move on with your life. You deserve better people in your corner and they are out there waiting for you.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say about all this here.
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