Chip Chick
“…Your wife isn’t someone you can trust with access to any of your accounts. Not only did she steal from you, she did it sneakily so you only know because you found it when caught she had no shame, isn’t sorry, doesn’t think she did anything wrong stealing from you, and wasn’t even willing to return what she stole when caught.”
“She is now angry at you and involving her family in bashing and pressuring you for not rolling over and saying it was cool and she could keep it when you caught her stealing from you.”
“It’s honestly hard to see how she could be any less worthy of your trust.”
“This would be a deal-breaker for me. She steals from you, doesn’t respect you, and doesn’t care about your feelings.”
“But since you seem to want to be married to this woman (????) you need to take all of your money and move it to a new account at a new bank and not tell her where it is. Be sure to tell the bank there are no other authorized users and that your wife is not authorized.”
“Cancel any credit cards you have and get new ones that you keep where she can’t access them. Check all credit card statements carefully, and check your credit occasionally to make sure she hasn’t taken out anything in your name.”
“Also, if it was me (and I wanted to be married to her), I’d take back the $300 bracelet too and return it.”
“I’d tell her you don’t buy birthday gifts for thieves who rob me, I am extremely disappointed in her, my trust in her is broken, and she has seriously damaged your marriage. That if she cares she needs to show me she realizes what she did is wrong and work over time to regain my trust.”
“But then again, I have basic self-respect and don’t let myself be treated like carp. The fact that you accept this sort of behavior from your wife and she’s the one now punishing you by being angry at you tells me that you don’t have the self-respect and self-worth you should.”
“That’s very sad. You should work on that. Please stop and think about why you accept this sort of treatment.”
